Is it normal that this happened when he was drunk...?

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I was staying at my friends place and one night her bf was drunk as fuk and came into my room when I was in bed ( it was about 3 in the morn roughly), I was already awake but it scared the shit out of me. He just opened the door and was kinda peering in, so I said yeah? He came in and asked to sit so I said you can sit over there- pointing to the end of the bed as I was really worried since my friend was sleeping. He said he wasn't but I am prtty sure he was hitting on me...He was saying things like you're a sexy chick and 'u should have came out with us before,it's nice to see your pretty face then he said I'm not hitting on you I say this to everyone, you're her mate. I thought- so if I wasn't ud try something O.o is it normal that he did this? I had this strong feeling that he may have done something to me if I wasn't awake...I was soo scared not only that he could have maybe rapped me but that my friend may have woken up and realised where he was and then gotten real mad. So now I'm afraid to go back there, and I can't tell my friend about this so I don't know what to do..

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  • Stifler
    10 years ago

    ya drunk men tend to "forget" about there current "special friends"

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      How is this 'normal'? A guy creeping into my room at night when he 'thinks' I'm asleep, what does he expect is gonna happen and why walk into my room? I don't give a fuk if he is drunk or not, the fact is, is that u still have sense or a 'brain' when intoxicated so u sure as hell don't try to get into aother girls pants ESPECIALLY if A- he has a gf and B- it's her friend

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      • Sumi
        10 years ago

        It isn't normal. When did that all go down? (e.g. yesterday, week, two summers ago)

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          10 years ago

          Well about a month ago now.

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          • Sumi
            10 years ago

            Just wondering because time changes how people cope with this trash. Here is a bit of sound advice - Everyone has blind spots in life the problems are too close to understand until it is too late. I have always dated friends of friends. In a relationship they are even further blinded. It is easier because they have already been vetted by your circle. You could have been raped and then had your friend turn against you.

            Do not hang out with people who have poor judgement of character. Every time this is ignored terrible terrible things can happen. They will with good intention surround you with dishonest, selfish, and #@$%ed up people. This really hit home because a friend from school was not so lucky in this same situation. Hope all is well, stay safe.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              10 years ago

              I am not 100% sure what you're trying to say so il sum up what I think you're implying- It's not good to be around people who have poor judgement of character of others i.e; in my case my friends bf who is a dick? Am I right? Also what do you mean quote- "It is easier because they have already been vetted by your circle"? If I was rapped it would be a shocking thing if she turned against me when it was her bf that did it to me :O
              But then again I am usually the one that gets the blame for some reason :/ Oh and I do not believe it is her intention to surround me with fucked up, selfish people...why would u say that? Thanks for your comment I do appreciate it and hope to hear from you.

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