Is it normal that this girl is suuuchhhh a hypocrite???

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So we used to be pretty close friends but then she started excluding me from stuff and we stopped hanging out all together but now she's saying that she can't be friends with me because I'm "too emotional"... except she once told me she wants become a psychologist?!?! It doesn't make sense to me that she doesn't want to deal with emotional people but that's the main job description (kinda, except there's a bit more involved) of a psychologist!!!
P.s. I can't help that I'm an emotional person..SOOORRYYY!!

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  • Ms.Caffinated
    10 years ago

    She doesn't wanna bring work home with her. A relationship should be with someone who she can unwind and have fun with. thats not hypocritical, it's human nature.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      but the thing is...she was the wholeee reason why I was getting emotional, she treated me like crap and basically it's like a double-edged sword ...she made me upset and emotional for being a jerk to me....but then she didn't like the fact that I was getting upset and just reacting to what she had caused in the first place....it's not my fault

      and btw...she isn't a psychologist, she just wants to be. But I feel like if she really wanted to become one then she would at least try to understand emotions now.

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      • Ms.Caffinated
        10 years ago

        Is she's treating you so badly, why are you friends with her? I've seen people get crazy because of someone, do your self a favor and open your eyes. You don't need someone like that in ypur life

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          10 years ago

          I guess I have been thinking that for a while....but I'm the type of person to give sooooo many chances because I guess there's always a part of me that likes to think all people are good deep down...
          anyways...thanks for the advice :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    If she wants to be a psychologist, then perhaps she'd like to be paid to deal with emotionally intense people.

    Unlike what most people believe, the majority of psychologists go into research careers, and not counselling.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    Sounds like you don't need this girl in your life. Sounds like she doesn't want you in hers.
    What more is there to say, other than, bye, bye?

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    It is possible that she is one of those people who choose a career simply for the monetary payback.

    Once upon a time, I wanted to be a psychiatrist. I didn't yet understand the difference between a "therapist" and a "psychiatrist". Yes, the subject interested me, but I think it was more of a passing fancy as opposed to an legitimate desire. I went through many career fancies as a child. My family was all for it, but I took me awhile to realise that their "support" was for the wrong reasons. The only thing they cared about was the monetary aspect and how much money I would make. It makes sick.

    Of course, there could be other possibilities on your friend's career choice. If it were me, I'd ask her point blank on why she has chosen this career. If you do this, don't start the conversation off with an accusation!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      thanks for the advice :) .....we're not friends anymore but it was good advice nonetheless XD

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      • Avant-Garde
        10 years ago

        You're welcome.

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  • Fabulosity
    10 years ago

    She sounds like a heartless bitch really stay away from her she sounds no good I've had friends like this before and now I found one that is just as emotional as myself hejhej

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      thanks! btw I totally agree with you about her....eh whatever it's all in the past :P I hate drama!! lol

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  • Freedom_
    10 years ago

    It's okay.

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