Is it normal that they don't know i'm actually a virgin?

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People think I've slept with so many guys, and I haven't denied it so that makes me a liar. But I didn't mean to lie, it all sort of snowballed at some point and then it was like I couldn't go around taking it all back could I? I am 20 years old, I don't want my friends to know I'm a virgin, I'm ashamed of it. The worst part is I've had SO many chances to lose it, the timing just wasn't right. I know that people are going to say that the truth will come out, and I've thought long and hard about that( I'll move to Antarctica). I just sort of wondered if I'm the only one this has happened to.. or If I'm just a big liar and should come down off my high horse and tell my friends the truth. Lately I want to tell my best friend but I'm afraid of how she will see me. The thing is, most of my girlfriends are virgins, so that may help the way they see me, but I'll still be a liar. Any advice?

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    Who cares? The only person to whom your virginity is a big thing is you. Nobody else gives a damn.

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  • chaosdragoon1
    12 years ago

    "had so many chances, but the timing wasn't right" = I'm not ready for sex yet.

    A lot of people have trouble admitting this to themselves. Its not a good thing or a bad thing. Just relax and take your time.

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    Easy A.

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  • I_steal_free_bread
    12 years ago

    How about you tell them the truth so people dont think you're a whore. Unless you like the attention?

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