Is it normal that there's no other way for me?

I get it... but do you realize that a person with absolutely no family our friends to support her would probably be pretty messed up in the head. The chances of finding a girl with a good personality under such stipulations is slim, but not unheard of. You would have a better chance of finding a girl who has friends, but doesn't spend much time with them, who had family, but contacts them mainly by phone. And who would want a religious girlfriend anyway?.. Besides religious people...

if u want to make a women to only have you and that your the only man she can take there is something really hurting deep down inside you :(. do you think thats the only way to make sure she dosent leave you so your emotions dont get trampled on remember just becuz she has other people in her life dosent mean your not an important part. remeber that more opitions show her love for you more becuz she chooses you over other guys. remeber there are women that are confident and that could and would stay with you forever and would love you to the moon or back. i dont know who scarred you but not all womem with familys are no good. and whatever hurt you have u can get through it. message me whenever u nees someone to talk to

I almost understand this? It's insecurity at it's finest. But I totally get it. You may not realize this, but you want a girl with no family or friendly ties, because you want her to only have you. Not so you can abuse her, but so you can love her with no fear of others interfering or loving her more. If she had friends they could say things behind your back and under mind the relationship. She would undoubtably want to hang out with her friends and that would leave you at home, wanting to be with her. Her family might not like you and reject the idea of you being together. It's odd, but I see it. I remember when I moved to a new town I had no friends and wanted a boyfriend who didn't have any friends. It felt like we could bond better and spend more time with eachother. I ended up falling for a guy I thought had alot of friends though. Lifes kindof funny that way. If you find a girl and you start to really like her, I say give her a shot despite her situation. I also realize this is all based on assumption from your post so uhm... haters no hating!! lol

Do you have problems with your own family? If so, just know that someone elses family can be extremely different from yours.

1) People change. The women you would not accept now you may accept later as your views change. What you want/need now you may not want/need in the future.

2) Self-analysis is very, very unreliable.

3) Very little is "forever".

I think similarly. I wouldn't mind if I was with someone who had acquaintances but not people who they know well or see regularly.

Was this with a website? Or just your own analysis. Why do you not like family so much, I would try to change yourself first because that is narrowing things down way too much. How would you even find this girls, you'd meet TONS and TONS of them, not being orphans and have to screw off because they aren't. Even worse is that even if you find one that is, she might want somebody that does want a family because they are missing that.

I'm not saying you might not fall in love with somebody that is an orphan all by accident but the truth is most people can't choose who they fall in love with they do. I would try to open yourself up to that idea.

What?

You're weird

haha thats funny, an orphan, are u an orphan?