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I've never kissed anyone before and the thought of it grosses me out & makes me uncomfortable. the thought of being that close to someone's face freaks me out and seems super intimate and weird
What are you going to do when you get married and your husband wants to stick his prick in you and spurt his cum inside your body. If you think kissing is gross you ain't seen nothing yet.
Its normal to not want that, everyone is different in what they like and don't like. If we all wanted and liked the same things it would be boring. I know multiple people that hate the idea of being intimate with someone, its all normal and you should never feel like you have to do something you don't want to do.
i was out cheating on my wife and i couldnt get the ball rolling because i forgot kissing was foreplay. you see when i want sex with my wife i kiss her , but it just didnt occur to me you kiss other women for sex too. weird right.
I don't think it's normal. Good kissing is heavenly! Are you afraid of germs?
Being "super intimate" is kinda the point.
Most people really enjoy kissing someone they find attractive. Physically, a good kiss feels nice since there are loads of nerve endings in the mouth and lips. We don't kiss just anyone in a sensual way, so when you kiss someone you really like, it proves the other person likes you enough to do something they don't do with just anyone.
Scientists suspect that kissing is also about smelling the other person. Most people aren't really aware of it, but personal body scent (and I don't mean BO or perfume) plays a big role in how attracted we are to others. Interestingly, scent allows us to unconsciously detect when someone else is genetically different from us, and couples who are genetically different tend to produce healthier babies.
You don't say how old you are, but I suspect you're still pretty young. If so, you may find that your opinions of kissing change as you get older, and you'll probably eventually meet someone who you'll want to get up close and personal with. If that happens, kissing won't seem weird at all, although it will probably feel awkward at first as you try to figure out how to do it nicely.
On the other hand, you may live your entire life being phobic about kissing or even touching anyone else. As long as that doesn't make you feel unhappy because you suspect you're missing something and it doesn't screw up the rest of your life, that would be fine too.