Is it normal that the thing i want the most is for my dad to remarry?

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My parents haven't even moved out or gotten a divorce yet, but even so, the thing that I want the very most is for my dad to remarry. My mom has been verbally abusing him for years every single day(calling him stupid, coward, failure etc. even though he is almost a CEO and makes lots of money compared to her who doesn't even have a job) and its making him really depressed so I don't really care if my mom is happy, but my dad is so genuinely nice, and all I want is for him to be happy. I am an only child, but I would be sooo happy if he got a wife and had children and just started over. Most people with divorced parents don't want their parents to remarry, but it is actually the thing I want most. Is this normal?

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    That is a sign of a mature person, wanting someone close to them to be happy! You may just be wise beyond your age

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  • NotFloydzie
    11 years ago

    It's normal since you see all the abuse your mom is putting him through. Try talking to him and reassure him that the things your mom says to him aren't true, and also tell him how you feel about him getting remarried. He might be emotionally traumatized since you're saying the situation is making him depressed. My parents are divorced and both of them got remarried to two wonderful people which I both, thank goodness, personally like.

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  • Redlegs24
    11 years ago

    Just try talking to your dad & express your feelings to him. Maybe he's just staying with her cause he feels thats what you would want

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