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So it's been 5 darn years that I got visions and dreams about a extremely cute guy! It's always the same. I deeply love him! I don't even know if he exists in real life!!
I hate to think that this guy probably never existed! I don't know... I just love him so much! I'm crazy.
| No | 8 | |
| Happens to me RN | 3 | |
| Yes | 4 | |
| Oh... | 9 | |
| Maybe | 5 |
Wanna know the kicker?
You've seen the guy before. But you don't know where. Maybe it was on TV or in a magazine. The brain does not create new faces it only uses whatever is around.
In all seriousness I hope you don't wait around for the man of your dreams because it might never come true.
The only reason why I believe in my dreams and visions is because I had many dreams that came true and one vision that happened after 20 minutes. I know it's weird but IT really happened.
One time I was in class and all of the sudden I can see somdthing happening... like a real life scene like a dream but with my eyes open. I saw a dude I knew and he was leaning toward our classroom door. He wasn't in our group. he had like papers n stuff. he walked in and the teacher stopped talking. this guy explains his situation and he goes sitting somewhere. Than my vision stops, everything comes back to normal. 20 min after, I turn around and I see the same exact crap I saw in my vision!!!!!
Its ur lucky day. I'm the guy UV been dreaming of.......SURPRIZE!!!!!!!!!
You're not living in reality. Your dream life will never satisfy you, and if you continue to entertain this silly fantasy no real, living, breathing, human man will be able to please you. Is that what you want?
Yeah I thought about that a lot. I'm always thinking about how crazy is my situation and how I will end up forever alone. At the same time I have hopes about meeting "this guy" one day. It sucks! But how am I gonna stop my feelings...? I can't have these kind of feelings for 2 individual. Oh well, I guess I'll just end up alone with 85486258885 cats in an appartement! lol
Thanks for your reply. I used to live with in my head in the land of make believe a lot. I'm a 45 year old woman who's twice divorced with no kids, and I will probably remain so. I started seeing someone recently, but God only knows where that will lead.
I'm not trying to have a pity party, but I feel fantasy and daydreams are full of empty promises that haven't done much more than waste my time. If I could offer you any advice it would be to live your life in reality, be mindful and stay present.
If you dream of running a marathon stop dreaming, and start running just a couple of miles each day. Start small and build on that, and you just may cross the finish line.