Is it normal that the guy wich says that he loves me,punched me?

So i'm very ineterested what do you think about the guys wich claims that they couldn't live withou you, but in another second they may get mad,give you a slap in the face and swear like a trooper,how do you think, is this real love? i'd like the boys to answer me on this question? do you give a slap and swear the girl who you do really love? is such behaviour normal for the relationship?

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  • mariluz

    I think it doesn't have to do with anything he might feel about you. I suspect he comes from a troubled home, so he has grown violent. People like that DOES need help, BUT, if you get romantically involved with one, you are going to get hurt. Getting romantically involved with a troubled person makes you vulnerable. They are not bad though. They need help. But, I repeat, it is NOT advisable to get romantically involved with one.

    For your own sake, I would suggest you end the romantic relationship with him. But if you really love him, you could choose to help him as a friend. However, this could be risky for you, so maybe you could just leave and seek outside help for him.

    Violent people are victims of their own frustrations and traumas, so they often get it out on others, even the people they love the most.

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    • NeuroNeptunian

      This, OP. Don't become a victim. Your boyfriend is an abuser and it will only get worse from here.

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  • Justsomejerk

    I pictured a guy with Tourette's syndrome and it made me laugh.

    "I can't live without you WANKER TOUCH MY PENIS HEY HEY NO i'M GAY.

    If he doesn't have adorable Tourette's, and the slap wasnt a misplaced tic then you are setting yourself up for I lifetime of hurt.

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    • "I can't live without you WANKER TOUCH MY PENIS HEY HEY NO i'M GAY"

      Haha that made me lol so hard......i want that on a t-shirt!!!!!!!!!!

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      • Justsomejerk

        I just saw a doco about 3 blokes with Tourette's taking a road trip and it's the funniest thing I've ever seen. That was a direct quote in capitals (and the i I missed). I really felt for the guys by the end as they'd get stuck in loops and were getting pretty distressed.

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        • Yeah i can't imagine it to be all that great besides being able to tell everyone to "fuck a shit cock!" all the time.

          But damn, "I can't live without you WANKER TOUCH MY PENIS HEY HEY NO i'M GAY"....that whole sentence is funny as hell.

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  • boston12

    slaps u once, then a punch then a stab next thing u no ur chainsawed into little pieces buried under his front porch. no love there

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  • Golemzzz

    Nope, not hard to understand at all.

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  • fullhouse

    I once raised my hand on my gf but stopped mid way..Yes its normal..But honestly I regret it to this day..

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  • chatter289

    Honey, of this guy put a hand on you, no love should keep you with him! Why don't you punch him back and leave him. Domestic violence and love are entirely different things.

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  • coolio75650932

    hit him back :3

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  • Nola.Soul.Jah

    Lol wish you would have put the reason why he did it to you. Sounds like your bullshiting, im getting the feeling you did something to really hurt him and he slapt you . And the way you wrote the question makes it look like you can only get good feedback from it(well good for yourself) so you can convince yourself that your right about the whole situation.
    Btw i do not codone abuse . I speak the facts

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  • Avant-Garde

    He sounds abusive. Don't get in a relationship with him, instead get away from him while you still can! Alert someone to the situation.

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  • iEatZombies_

    Regardless of how he feels about you, it is not enough to outway the bad. Love -if he does love you- is not enough to go through this. Staying with him with him won't prove your love for him. If you stay, your own self-worth will shatter. You'll never look at yourself with any respect. He will never respect you. If you want to prove you love him, get him help and stay his friend.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    "I'm going home, gonna load my shot gun
    Wait by the door and light a cigarette..."

    Gunpowder and Lead-it's a song by Miranda Lambert. It's a good song...and it could help you with your situation.

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  • waterfall

    thanks a lot guyes :) i broke with him, and Nola.Soul.Jah the reason why he slapt was his morbid jealousy,and i can say that during the three month i was under stress just because he didn't believe that girl like me could love the boy like him...everyday i kick up a row at home(my mom didn't like him)i defend and always justified...and what hurt me the most was that he didn't send me even message to know how i felt...i couldn't notice anyone while we had a relationship,i was fell in love blindly and couldn't see that everyday rows with him destroyed me inside,it's hard to cry everyday because your bf blame you for the thing you didn't make...and this is just the part of my suffering...anyway he is regreting now all the behaviours and asked me to give one more chance...but remembering all the pain i wish i didn't know him...i'm very scared and distrait at all...i'm just the ordinary girl and want to have untroubled relationship and simply kindly words from the person i love...is it so hard to understand?

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  • rekltalni

    depends on the situation. if you cheated on him, acted like a total bitch, etc. then Yeah. I mean put yourself in his shoes. Most girls would slap a guy who cheated on them, lied, etc etc.

    on the other hand if its just random violence, no.

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  • FruityGoofyFaggot

    Kill him

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    • KeddersPrincess

      I'm completely with you.

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