Is it normal that the good guy makes me want to do bad things?

Okay, so I got out of a relationship about 3 weeks ago and in order to get my mind off of my ex, I decided to go onto an online dating website. I met someone new right away, well I met a handful of cool dudes, but this guy is special. Before I went on the website I had a good idea of what I wanted out of a guy. I was thinking that I had a new chance to skip as much BS as possible and not date someone like my ex, no drugs, no addiction to porn, doesn't have so many emotional issues, someone who is educated.

This new guy follows all of the good boy stuff. He has a bachelors, he has a good job as a US marshall, tall, handsome, athletic, and super strait in a sense that he doesn't smoke, nor even drink.

I like to drink and I don't smoke cigarettes, but I do enjoy an occasional hookah or cigar, but even he thinks that is bad. Usually I was the one that hounded my ex for doing bad things, but in this case I feel like I'm the bad girl. The kicker is that the fact that he is so strait it MAKES me WANT to do BAD things. Stuff like flirt more with him, he hasn't tried to kiss me yet, but I really want to and even do more with him, which is not by any means my normal behavior. I want to do more bad girl stuff, but I'll leave the rest for my journal. I know I am not that bad, but feeling a little bad made me feel really good and in turn makes me want to be bad, Is that normal??

It's almost like say you are with a virgin, the fact that they never do it makes you want to do it that much more, O and I am not talking about just sex, just so you know.

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82% Normal
Based on 50 votes (41 yes)
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Comments ( 6 )
  • regisphilbin

    normal

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  • Steve92

    Tough luck!

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  • kinklu

    Disgustingly normal!

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Sounds like fun.

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  • dappled

    I completely understand that. You're enjoying a bit of role reversal from your previous relationship (and this is probably helping you get over that too). Enjoy yourself!

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  • Short4Words

    Maybe you are making up for what you and your boyfriend had, but you have to do all the work. It could be just what you're used to.

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