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We are deeply in love. We've been together for five years going on six, but sometimes I get a very awful feeling in the back of my head; like if she was avoiding me or didn't want me. I push the thoughts out of my head but its really cumbersome to think of.
Women are constantly changing their mind on what they like. They are not to be trusted.
Well that was me a while ago. I had sat down and thought about my problem for a while and I realized, I'm with a beautiful woman who loves me. That really destroyed all this negativity
You have self esteem issues, keep this up and your girlfriend WILL lose interest with you if she hasn't already. There's nothing more attractive to a woman than confidence, and there's nothing more unattractive to a woman than a lack of confidence.
I get that feeling all the time. I've shared it with her recently in an outburst of frustration, claiming that she doesn't want anything to do with me anymore but she won't let me go because she doesn't want to be alone either.
Piece of advice: Don't do that (not in those terms at least, it's not the kind of thing women are eager to hear). Anyway, if you've lasted that long in a relationship I guess I shouldn't be giving advice to you, rather the other way around.
A few days later she told that exact same thing to me in different words. I let her notice that and told her that one of us is feeling that way and adjudicating it to the other, or maybe both (which is my guess right now). Be it as it may, this relationship is walking on thin ice.
Well, yes I would say it's normal. Just talk to her, I'm sure she will understand. I think most people in relationships has felt like that at some point.