Is it normal that some girls just judge another girls looks?

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Well it was pretty hard to explain what I mean in the title, so it's important that you read this.
Basically, is it normal that a good looking girl would automatically hate another good looking girl (when she hasn't even bothered to even say a word to her in an attempt to get to know her). It's hard to explain, but it's like some girls just do not appreciate each other.
I tried starting a conversation with a girl on twitter. She asked if anyone was is the same university hall as her (someone retweeted her) and I am. So I sent her a message in attempt to start a conversation. She's a good looking girl. No doubt she gets attention. But yet many people say I'm a good looking girl too and I won't deny I do get quite a bit of attention. In all honesty I'm not too fussed on my appearance or getting attention off a load of men. I'd rather just settle down with a nice, down to earth man. As you can guess, she completely ignored me. Although she had absolutely no problem talking to the fellow males in our hall. She won't talk to any girls.
So is it normal when a girl is good looking and she KNOWS she is to outright ignore and act like a bitch to other good looking girls? This is pretty much one example of this. I have experienced this a LOT more! Even though I am female, I still find this strange. Who knows, if you gave them a chance you could find a really good friend? Why on earth are some girls like this?

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  • myownopinions
    11 years ago

    How do you know that it's not the opposite way around (that you're a good looking girl judging another good looking girl)? Maybe she's shy around girls, was specifically targeting males, didn't like something (other than your looks) about you, or some other reason.

    Either way, in general, some good looking girls are just jealous/insecure and see another good looking girl as competition.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Pretty sure she's not shy around females, judging by her massive girl group photos. But oh well. And yes, I am judging, put positively. Who doesn't want to be called good looking?
      But yeah it's true about the competition thing. It's just silly because I know for a fact I can't be called competition. I'm just not interested in getting with a lot of men.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    It is possible, some women do see it as a threat to their position as their own, personal alpha-female.

    However, some women are like me and don't get as much genuine enjoyment from interacting with other women although this year in college I seem to be making a lot more in the way of good female friends but I am still plagued by the mentality of once bitten, twice shy regarding other women.

    It could be the former explanation, the latter, or anything else. Don't automatically assume that it is all about her looks here. Not all women think that way.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    Not all girls are like that. You're not like that for instance. But that girl sees you as competition and she doesn't appreciate. She'll change with years because beauty and youth is not eternal and after university when you have to make your way in the real world sometime beauty does not help because people tend to think that beautiful girls are shallow. So learn hard because the real battle is after uni. I've gone a little out of subject. xcuz

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    11 years ago

    Fuck me you're over thinking this, she just wanted to talk to cute GUYS not girls. She wanted to get fucked not have a new friend.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Sad thing is she will need friends. Because it's university and she won't know anyone. No exaggeration. She will not know one person.
      So fair enough, if she wants to get fucked in the first few weeks, she won't have any girl friends for the rest of the year.

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      • squeallikeasacofpigs
        11 years ago

        As someone who has just finished my 3 years at University, you are so so so so so wrong.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago

          Well clearly I know you can make friends later in the year. Do you really think I'm that thick?
          But she'll find it harder. Girls don't like other girls who are promiscuous. In all honesty, I don't give a shit about her making friends or whatever because she's isn't clearly not going to be mine. I was just asking IIN to see other girls as a threat?
          Now do you really want to turn this into a big long drawn out argument? Because I won't give you one. It just seems like you don't want to let this go. I'll let you have the last word but I am not interested in arguing over something pathetic over making friends half way through a university year because my post has nothing to do with that whatsoever and I won't let anyone spoil my post by taking it way off topic because they want to argue with someone online.

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          • squeallikeasacofpigs
            11 years ago

            BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Are you on the rag or something? Jesus, way to over react!

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    • Ldizzy1234
      11 years ago

      Haha I was actually thinking of the same thing when I read this. The girl just sounds like a slut that wants to slut around. Shes not looking for a girl friend.

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  • davesumba
    10 years ago

    Girls won't stop judging people until hell freezes over.

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    • regisphilbin
      8 years ago

      lol well said

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  • Fabulous
    11 years ago

    They try and look good, but such bitches deep down. I hate them, they're always jealous of my fashion. Fabulous!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    flippity flop da do wop wop tiddle tadle toodle top da dip dip diddle dooble dop.

    Try and read that out loud really fast it's fucked.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    It sounds to me like this girl is intimidated by you, and her esteem isn't as high as she may want people to think it is. I wouldn't worry about it. These are the kind of things that I like to call "girl competition" which I fortunatly am impervious to. Don't let jealous girls bother you. Girls like this aren't worth befriending, and I'd look at her ignoring me as a good thing. It keeps her out of your space.

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  • dom180
    11 years ago

    This is a good test to use when you're deciding if someone is worth even a second of your time.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    i put it down to jealosly

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    Some chicks are just bitches like that. Its pretty stoopid :)

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    • thinkingaboutit
      11 years ago

      hey I say stoopid like that too :)

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  • Imposturously_yours
    11 years ago

    http://i.qkme.me/35jotc.jpg

    ^^This

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  • SangoNyappy
    11 years ago

    Best thing you can do if you're ugly or not popular (even if you said you're not) is to find people like you. Me and my best friend are ugly together now. Problem atenttion whores?

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Women judge people by looks far more than males do, in my opinion. So maybe she is threatened, in a sense.
    There is a chance that she just doesn't like being with other females. I have also seen many women not like having female friends, and some people on this site even do the same.

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  • Indira
    11 years ago

    Some girls just need the attention and I guess think that if they don't hang around other looking girls, they'll get all the attention. I've had this happen to me several times, I'm still wondering why exactly but that's my theory on it. :)

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