Is it normal that since i was 10 i fantasized about being a slave?

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Since i was about 10 i remember having a good friend i had somehow talked into becoming my master. i encouraged her to make me fetch her her lunch box and tie her shoe laces etc. and i enjoyed it.
A few months later i was hanging out with a friend and we were kidding around at her house and she told me to stay at the bottom of the stairs. and i stayed, sat on the cold hard floor at the base of the step and waited for her to tell me to come upstairs.
since then i'd felt that urges to have those things happen again but i dismissed them, but now that i'm older i wonder if that was normal, what made me do those things and why do i still feel that way..
Any thoughts?

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Based on 141 votes (60 yes)
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  • chicken471bologna
    12 years ago | pl

    Sticks and stones might break my bones. But chains and whips excite me!

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    • Fidgety
      12 years ago

      That's the best comment I've seen so far, out of all the topics.

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  • Energy
    12 years ago

    So NOT in a sexual way? hahaha

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  • GuessWho
    12 years ago

    Not normal. But I wouldn't mind giving orders to someone like that.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I don't think its normal but i dont judge because of it. there are definitely more people than just you who share this wish!

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  • WildUtopia
    12 years ago

    I think maybe you liked her but it's okay I was really submissive as a kid too. I mean it's not like you understood the negative connotations of being a slave so I think you're okay. And you also experienced how being a slave restricts you from...free will or even your desires. You should of asked to be an indentured servant lol. Also if you still have those feelings...maybe cosplay as a maid? Work at a maid cafe...if you feel emotions alongside the servant act than...I think you liked your friend...bi-curious??

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  • RavagedSoul
    12 years ago

    If you're a girl, call me :D

    On a more serious note no it is not normal. People want to be Hitler, not the part of 17 million people who died because of him. They want power not to be powerless

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    You sound like a masochist. I have masochistic tendencies, but I've never been someones slave....

    It's normal. Why don't you find yourself a dominant and become his/hers slave 24/7?

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  • helice
    12 years ago

    This is absolutely normal, it is simply your thing. There is no such thing as a 'normal' fetish, everybody has something that gets them going, and while it doesn't define you as a person, delving into your fetish can be a great experience. There is an immense d/s community out there, and they either feel the way that you do or they are looking to please people like you!

    You shouldn't feel guilty for doing what makes you feel good.

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  • Yuki-Okami
    12 years ago

    It can be ether you like her, you have a submissive personality, but on an extream you could be submissive that needs to find a mistres.

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  • yo-its-me
    12 years ago

    nt sure if its normal but it is veeerryyy kinky

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  • seabird_71
    12 years ago

    I think what matters is how you act on these fantasies. Perhaps you are simply a very submissive person, that could make your sexual partner very excited if they are dominant. But it'd be different if you flaunt yourself to strangers and tell them to use you as your slave.

    Everybody has their thing, I guess. Yours does't seem that bad though.

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  • icy
    12 years ago

    Its normal you probaley liked her

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  • tastycake101
    12 years ago

    No I don't think its normal .

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