Is it normal that shes my everything

there's this girl, ive known her for 3 years, and to the point, she is everything and beyond to me. we haven't even dated, but are friends to an extent id say, but over the years ive grown attached and protective of her (from a distance you can say), she is all i think about, and sadly enough, being with her is all i want. nothing sexual even unless it came to that of course. there are a bunch of other things that i could say about her, but it would become repetitive. but i cant get the balls to tell her this, and im terrified if i do, it'll become awkward and she wont talk to me after that.

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  • suckonthis9

    Remove: "and protective of" add "to"
    Fix: "nothing sexual even unless it came to that of course" Use a positive instead.
    Remove: "it'll become awkward and she wont talk to me after that"
    Show her what you wrote!

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  • Shackleford96

    Yes, it is normal. Think about this though, she won't wait around forever. Either tell her now or forever wonder at what could have been.

    I agree with suckonthis9 too.

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  • I say tell her how you feel. I confessed to a girl I've been crazy about and it made me feel so much better. Better to know than to wonder imo.

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  • It probably would be awkward if you did this, unless she is sending you VERY strong signals herself. If she isnt, which I am guessing she isnt since you didnt mention it, then be very prepared for it to be an awkward circumstance if you just throw it in her face one day.

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    • Energy

      Oh my God, I can't believe I'm agreeing with you .____.
      But yeah you're right.

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  • Corleone

    It's understandable that you're anxious to tell her about your feelings, but trust me: you do not want to be "just friends" with her. You'd like to get naked and do stuff to her. ;)

    Like the people above me said: go for it. I agree that it might complicate your relationship, but if she's really the girl of your dreams, then it's worth the risk. Good luck. :)

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  • Abnormallynormal

    Go for it never know until you try

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  • Who_Fan4Life

    Write ''I love you'' on your penis, and when you see her next time, whip your dick out.

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  • RaNdOmPoPcOrN

    Awwww! Yes! That's like so sweet u should ask her out!

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  • glowman

    I've been there. Take the chance. I did ans it worked out great. She said fuck off. I said alright and the next day we were back to being friends as usual.

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  • kellstar79

    It's been over 10 years since I was in high school and my best friend (male) told me this year he has been in love with me since then. It didn't ruin our relationship as best friends but it's not the right timing for either of us. He felt better finally admitting it and took alot off pressure off him. I say tell her and if you can't face to face then text her and tell her you have something important to admit. You will never know how she feels unless you tell her and will forever wonder...

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  • BluntsRolled

    Don't do it. Its already too late its been 3 years and you been chasing her ass and smelling her farts the whole time, and if she hasn't made it obvious enough that she wants you by now, then I think its safe to say shits dead man, shits dead.

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