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I have a slight issue. During sex with my new girlfriend, I noticed a fecal smell. At first I thought it may be her vagina. But upon closer inspection, it's clearly her ***. I'm not sure if she's not washing it properly or if that's just how it smells all the time. I need your help ladies. I don't know how to address this with her.
That's a delicate subject. What you can do is just before sex you suggest taking a hot shower together and you ask her to let you treat her like a lady should be treated. Rub her back, rub her boobs, rub her ass and wash her everywhere especially there. Hope this works.
There are conditions that can cause anal leakage, she might not be able to help it, shower or not.
My husbands ass used to smell like this I straight up told him babe i can smell your ass when were having sex and it turns me off and is kinda gross and you need to wash better. Now he almost never smells like shit, I guess I made him aware and he started cleaning better. lol this is how it went their was this one time his ass was facing the fan and I couldnt help but bust out laughing and told him I just couldnt do it plus what I wrote above lol
Coax her into showering together before you have sex again. Part of forplay. And do not tell her that you told people on the internet that she had a fecal odor.
are you sure she doesnt fart during sex? and just talk to her about it, im pretty sure she smell shit when she pulls off her clothing.
sum very funny comments, approach with care. although if u can smell it y cant she?
It seems as if she is doing a poor job wiping herself and/or bathing herself. You could do the whole shower thing that everyone has suggested but I don't think that will fix the problem...I mean are you going to shower together every single time before you have sex? Probably not.
I would bring it up but I;d be very gentle about it. You should tell her that you care about her very much and that you are very attracted to her...however you have noticed that sometimes there is a distinct odour during sex which turns you off. You don't have to say that its coming from her just say its something you have noticed in case she has not. You can then say that in order to avoid this that the both of you should take extra care when bathing so make sure you can both have the best most enjoyable time in the bedroom together. End that conversation with a hug and kiss, tell her how awesome she is and thanks for listening to your concerns.
Good Luck!
Happened to me the other day. Told my wife I could smell asshole and it was pretty overwhelming even in missionary and asked if we could take a shower before continuing. She was a little embarrassed, but grateful I told her instead of just trying to grin and bear it.
It's not abnormal for sex to have a smell, there's sweat, sperm and bodies rubbing together will create a faint yet distinctive aroma. Plus a women's personal smell can change during certain times in her cycle. I've never known sex to smell like poo though. xx
The shower idea is good. It would be really tricky bringing that up. You don't want to embarrass her. She would probably always be self conscious about it for the rest of her life... Or at least I would. Which could impact your future sex life. Goodluck!
Maybe she's just not good at wiping, poor girl.... Help her out and ralk to her about it but be understanding and act extremely comfortable with the conversation so u don't embarrass her, show her u dont think she is disgusting.
You think she sharted in bed? You have to call those dont you?
Dude, I just sharted..
That really disgusting and if u want the relationship to last tell her or suggest sex in the shower.. But I personally would be completely turned OFF.. Sex would be non existent!!.. Like EWWWWWW
NOT NORMAL, Can indicate several very treatable medical issues, and a few needing immediate attention. If it's just a basic hygiene issue? then it's all about trust and communication.
Don't forget- some hygiene fails are a TRAUMA BASED fact.
Rape/Abuse of some sort or other emotional PAIN can be manifested in such things. And to the literal hell with anyone belittling a person for having been a victim of trauma.
Yeah it can be simply pun unavoidable- crappy- hygiene.
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What did you just say to me?
I'm not sure how I gave you this impression, but your criticism? Is not welcome around me.
My wife hates taking showers, even after sex. I used to have to beg and coax her into taking a shower before sex. She's finally caught on that I like clean a clean body.
I like nothing better than to start my day with a big glass of freshly melted poo juice. It really says "Good Morning Sunshine"!