Is it normal that she showers before sex?

haha, why wouldn't he just join her in the shower!!!!!

I guess i just have a different way of thinking, but if it was me I would'ov washed her, banged her, and then washed her again....(all while we were still in the shower)

And another thing did this dude try talking to her?? you know with "words"......Yea words that come out of the mouth and usually mean something!!!!!

You know what? Some of these comments are really, truely stupid.

I HAPPEN TO DO THIS. You know why? I happen to feel most attractive when I just step out of the shower. Know that sqweaky clean feeling? It makes me feel less insicure.

I think he should have asked her about it. I also think she may have had some feminine odor.

I always shower before going over to someone's house (boyfriend or whatever) if I know we're going to end up fooling around. I try my hardest not to pee before it either. I'd love to be able to shower before having sex all the time, I like the idea of smelling and tasting clean. But you're right, that's not sexy at all (unless there is sex IN the shower) and it's better when it's spontaneous.

Many women are insecure about how their bodies look, smell, and taste sadly due to the pressures of the society we live in. Then again it could also be that she's worked or otherwise physically exerted herself all day and she just wants to get rid of the days body odor. Jumping in the shower with her is a great solution. You can both get clean while getting "dirty"

SHE'S MASTURBATING, DUH! are you people retarded?!

perhaps she is killing 2 birds with 1 stone... she could be showering to freshen up for bob which is good for bob and in the process be rubbing one out in the shower before being disappointed by bob ;) which is good for her! hahaha!

Aw, she probably has some self esteem issues. Maybe "bob" has said some things to her in the past that hurt her feelings. So she's being a little self aware.

Because she wants you to go down on her and she wants to relax while you're doing it and not worry about her scent turning you off and she may be shaving her legs and private areas too. If you want to make it sexy, run her a bubble bath with candles and music and join her

you would think that the gf would learn to apply a little forethought and plan ahead for this situation. Much more reasonable to be sure she was freshly showered just before getting together with "bob". Remember that many women have all sorts of little insecurities. Regardless of what bob thinks about it, she may be very self conscious about her perceived odor and/or taste.
Also she may be gettin pounded all over town before she sees bob and just tryin to make sure "bob" don't end up with his tongue coated in "Tom" Jizz (pretty considerate that)

Being clean lessens chances of getting yeast infections and urinary tract infections. Guys generally don't have to worry about this so it's no surprise you all find it a mystery. To be fair, many girls don't seem to know either.

It's completely normal. What would you rather... Her smell of body odour or lovely and clean??? EXACTLY.

In fact, I also like if we both are clean when making sex. Sex organs are also urinary organs, etc, so I find it better to have a shower before action. But yes, you may perform this self-cleaning a bit obsessive way.

A good ass washing I never a bad thing lol! But it does kill the spontaneous passion!

I know that some girls do things like take shows a lot or feel the need to be clean because of things in there life. Like a girl who may have been raped or assaulted may feel the need to be clean. Who knows, ask her about her past.

Does anyone else think it's strange that she would make herself "clean", but not expect the same from "Bob"? So, would it really be an OCD thing then? Or maybe she just liked to be squeaky-clean for Bob? She could have been taught/told to be like that when she was younger (by a friend or parent) - like she could have some misconceptions about what level of cleaning is actually expected by men (according to a recent poll on this site, it's not all that important to guys).

You know it's funny. I was just thinking about this the other day. I am so happy that I am not a young girl in today's world. People on sites like these rip these girls apart telling them how to be clean and that they have to shave and basically push serious insecurities into their heads. And the funny part is that most of the nasty "advice" (stated more like "you're gross if you don't do this") is ridiculous.

Anyways...it might not be normal, what this girl is doing, but perhaps she's very insecure and is doing it because of that.

OMG YOU STUPID FUCKS! SHE DOES NOT HAVE OCD OR SELF-ESTEEM ISSUES! "BOB" should be grateful that she is even bothering to take the time and effort to be clean for him as he is clearly not worth it, and I'm sure she is doing it for his benefit more than her own! Also just because somebody likes to be clean it does not mean that they have self-esteem issues, it means that they take pride in themselves! I would never have sex if I was unclean because it's fucking revolting and I wouldn't wish that on anyone, and I definitely would not complain if any of my ex-boyfriends had done this, in fact I would have encouraged it! Leave her alone she is more than normal and I get really pissed off when people who do not wash think that anyone who washes daily has OCD! It is normal so stop being so fucking lazy and have a bath!

she just wants her cockpit to smell like roses instead of tuna Rr

She was probably fucking all day as a hooker and wanted her pussy to smell nice for you after being banged all day.

Maybe she wants to freshen up before you get down to the nasty? Just a crazy thought.. e.e

lol people shower after, but i've never found the need to shower before :D it just kills it. i like the immediacy of sex.. like two starved animals, just anywhere, going at it.. Oh man..

maybe she just likes to be clean before sex..or.. as blueskies says... maybe she is pleasuring herself in there because she knows its gonna be dissapointing with bob? :)

i know of a woman who was sexually abused in a relationship, she knew she had to make sure all her holes where clean and she was very ready to go.. into other relationship she continued this because of habit.. even when she knew she wouldn't allow anal she would still clean herself out

forest sex is the best

no shower
no washing
sometimes, no kleenex.

and lots and lots of ants & mosquitos.

ya i get that imperfect but doesnt it make your sex life boring? knowing every single time you were going to have sex? what if you and your partner got horny on a road trip? you would have to stop at a motel somewhere to have a shower and then get back on the road to give your partner a blowjob while he was driving or something. and did you know imperfect, that guys arent that fussy in bed with how you look as long as you are confident? so if you drop the shower thing and just loved who you are, your sex life would be really great.

Lol you wanna fuck a smelly pussy, by all means :D

yoo7steph, I do think she must have been somewhat obsessed too. But oh well, im not really sure, dont know the girl too well.

68newman, hahah thats one theory :P

Ballooner360, I guess some might see it normal. I see the 'normal' as in take a shower everyday but not take one before sex. Not whilst in the middle of making out then go to the bathroom :p

I think it is weird...I mean, we shower too much as it is. It washes away all of our scent. Isn't scent part of attraction here? Unless she is a trash collector, but then again he wouldn't think the shower was so odd. If you want to give him some advice, tell him to try to initiate something without allowing her preparation, and then hopefully she will become comfortable with sex, and the relationship in general.

Maybe she already sleep with one of bobs friends and want to now sleeps with bob, so she goes and shower off all bob's friend smell away before bob finds out. Lol.... put 2 and 2 together now Bob....lol.

Conspiracy theory... she's cheating on him, and is washing away the remnants of the other guy she's doing. Has to be.

She cheating on him she needs to hide the stank and

If you drinking enough whisky, you dont any with smell.

Why would you make "Bob" anonymous on an already anonymous website? It's not like anyone knows this person here. She is totally using the shower-head to "prime" herself for this alleged BOB.

Imperfect, I respect that some people do it, I just won't agree :P and Aussiewolf is right, I would be hella bored if my sex life was planned o_O But we're all different!

Hi all! For what I am told by 'bob' my friend then she is not 'smelly' as in have a bad body odor at all.
- She doesn't do anything, cause she was waiting to get into some education or something?
- She is yes self conscious but what woman isn't?
- And she would lock the door, no showering together
- She did it EVERY time, not just once. every.

and to 'randomjelly'. Yes I know right? I was thinking the same if I had a boyfriend who did that... Prepared for sex in that way it would be such a turn off for me.

and to xyz, as far as I know he has tried that but I dont think it worked :/

Uh hum...i meant a good ass washing is never a bad thing.
I no likey talk good.

dude if i was "bob" i would dump her ass!