Is it normal that she's like this?

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Before I got married ( I'm 4 months married now) i had this amazing friend that I felt so lucky to have. She was my BFF .. We used to do everything together and know every little thing about each other. When I spend time with her I feel so happy that I wanted time to stop..
I fell in love with the guy am married to now, he's a good man and he takes good care of me. My friend didn't show up in the wedding but I forgave her, she really couldn't come. Little by little we became more distant and we don't talk or see each other much, when I text or call she sounds so different like she's hiding something and like she doesn't really wanna talk to me... I'm so sad and confused about her I really wanna get back to what we used to be.. I didn't change or anything I'm still me and I'm always the one who start texting or calling she doesn't initiate this.it's so difficult to talk her these days. What could be her problem? Is this normal?? Plz help :(

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Based on 45 votes (29 yes)
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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Friends tend to back off when you get married because it's as if you have chosen your favourite person so the others don't want to intrude. Single friends expect that you will develop friendships with other couples, and they don't want to be the blame for you continuing to lead the single life which would cause problems with your spouse.

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  • lacewithcyanide
    12 years ago

    They are just jealous

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    In my opinion, even if you didn't notice or it didn't look that way, she might had a crush on you or liked you more then a friend. If that's so, she is probably broken hearted or hurt by your marriage. I'm just saying in my opinion, why would she change after you got married? And to be honest she probably misses you too. She just doesn't want to ruin anything, specially a good and healthy friendship. You need to meet up with her and have a serious conversation and tell her how you feel.

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  • piman
    12 years ago

    Unfourtunatly yes, this is normal.

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