Is it normal that she never talks abt him even if she is fully drunk

Ok.... so there is this girl i really like, may be even love, but she is in love with some one else. she has not told me this but i got to know from a mutual friend who is really close to her, who says that they are even planning to get married n stuff, so what happened is i came to know of this and continued being just friends with her n we kinda have crazy hangouts...
coming to the point, when any one gets drunk, as far as i know, they tend to call their girlfriend or boyfriend. thats how it usually happens... but not with this girl, she gets really high and instantly switch's to romance mode. and the twisted fact is when she is so vulnerable and talking abt love n stuff, the person who she claims to be in love with does not even cross her mind even once... she even starts singing Taylor swift's "love story", and there is not even a mention of this guy, what i'd generally assume is that she is not even in love with this guy... what do u guys say???

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  • cannibus14

    it kind of sounds like she wants you on the side... not to cheat on her boyfriend with but to flirt with and add excitement to her life. she could still be in love with her boyfriend and just needs a little extra fun and attention, maybe to prove her worth to herself. if this is the case then she's totally taking you for granted. she's assuming you'll always be there to flirt with, and she doesn't even need to tell you if she's single or not. i would ignore her for a while if i was you. maybe she'll miss you and realize she likes you more than her boyfriend, or maybe she'll forget about you and you can realize that she just liked the attention while it lasted

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  • alv1592

    I guess you could ask her about this guy. If you two are friends I'm sure she won't mind you asking.

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  • well i have tried that... it doesn't work she changes topic immediately... says something like " im not feeling very well today' n stuff like that... i dont know how to get around all that ...and i dont know if i should press on the matter...

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  • ppl... i really need some advise.... im trying to decide if i should break away from her or to cling on... by the way she reacts around me sometimes really gets me thinking that there could be something here for me... i really love this girl and she knows it... but i dont know if it is good for me to stick around... help me out here...

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