Is it normal that she keeps doing this to me.

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So theres this girl ive had a crush on for a couple years. she moved out of state, but she comes back to town every now an again. Everytime shes in town she runs up and wraps her arms and legs around me an kisses me and tells me that she loves me. After all that we'll stand around and talk for a while. But when she leaves state again she wont talk to me at all. All of this just kills me i feel like I'm in love with this girl, and she acts like she loves an actually cares about me when were around each other. I just feel so different around her than when i do anyone else. I've told her how I feel about her, but she doesnt really say anything about it. Do you think she actually loves me and just doesnt tell me how she actually feels because she knows she's going to leave again?? Do you guys think she actually loves me or is she just playing with my emotions??

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Based on 42 votes (15 yes)
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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago | pl

    You are just going to have to come flat out and ask her what's up. I don't see any way out of it if you only see her once in a while.
    But first, you might want to be absolutely certain you want to know the answer. If she wants a relationship with you are you prepared to move to where she lives, because it doesn't seem she wants to move. How will you feel if she dashes your hopes?
    good luck

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    You don't have to talk to every single person you know every day. Just enjoy the time you spend together and when she goes spend time with someone else or your self.

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  • cupcake_wants
    9 years ago

    how old is this girl? Im thinking she's just immature and a cock tease. Dont take her seriously. She's playing with your feelings

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  • jessicakoh
    9 years ago

    Long distance relationship rarely works. Keep her as mistress.

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  • Sog
    9 years ago

    I voted normal because it's normal for women to be selfish and play with you like this. You are one of many guys that she "loves" I'm sure.

    I know it's easier said than done, but try not to get stuck on this one. Find someone who's not just screwing around.

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