Is it normal that she hasn't given me a date she's free yet?

I asked a girl that I really like out to dinner almost two weeks ago, and she said, "Yeah, we should!" and we exchanged numbers and walked to class. The next day, I called her and asked her if she'd like to go that Sunday. She said yes and told me the time she'd be done with her activities and ready to go, so it was settled.

Recruitment for a professional fraternity I wanted to join was happening that weekend, and she was on the recruitment committee, so the following day, she texted me and said that we "should wait until after recruitment to go to dinner" to avoid "conflict of interest." I said that was completely fine. We spent time together throughout recruitment weekend, and had a great time.

This week I found out that I was accepted, and the next day, I texted her and asked her if she'd be interested in going out (now that recruitment is over) that Friday before fall break. She said she was going home Friday afternoon to get home in time. She's coming back Monday, so I asked if she'd be interested in going out that night, and she said she has plans. She said, "I swear we will figure something out!" I said, "Sounds good! Let me know a time that works!"

It was midterms week and I was incredibly busy, so I understand that completely. It's been a few days. We've continued seeing each other and talking a few times and texting a bit, but she has yet to tell me a time she wants to go out. Am I too hopeful, or is this not going to happen? I can't stop thinking about this, and I really don't want to screw this up. :) Sorry for the long story, but I thought the details might help.

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  • Short4Words

    Don't leave it up to her. Same thing happened to me and we kept saying, yea sometime soon, blah blah, never happened, we both lost interest, end of story. BUT maybe if I had just said to her, hey let's go see iron man 2 or whatever, it would have just happened, or better yet, maybe you just need to be spontaneous with her.

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    • MmmHmm

      I guess I'm just afraid of coming off too strongly. Since I told her to tell me when she's free, I'm scared to call her up or something to ask her yet another time because I'm afraid she'll think I'm being too pushy or not taking the hint. :/

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      • Short4Words

        Why don't you just take a chance. If she's not interested, what do you have to lose. Just say hey lets go bowling or something.

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  • Pathetic.

    Stop being a little pussy that's wrapped around her finger.

    She doesn't respect you or value you at all because you're a wimp.

    You're not even getting laid and she's got you whooped.

    Stop contacting her and start hanging out with girls that appreciate you.

    More often than not if you ignore girls like this they come running after you.

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  • linchpin

    It's funny what Dylan Moran says. Guys are the sensitive ones. Guys are like
    "I cannot live without her. I want her sooo bad. I can't picture my life without her. I need her in my life, to make me complete"
    Girls feel that way about shoes.

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    • MmmHmm

      Preach.

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