Is it normal that she fingers me but wont let me finger her?

i'm a 19 year old girl and i recently started dating this girl that im really attracted to. ive never been with a girl, but she has. shes really touchy and by the second date she fingered me. she seemed to really enjoy it, but whenever i tried to go near her "area" she would casually move my hand away. she was basically rubbing me down there ALL night, and when she dropped me off at the end of the night she got me naked in her car but kept all her clothes on. i love being dominated so this is awesome for me, but i am just making sure that it is normal for her to be so dominant that she does not want me to even return sexual "favors"..? she seems fully comfortable and confident with herself, so i doubt it is an insecurity issue. what do you guys think?

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Based on 16 votes (8 yes)
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Comments ( 9 )
  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    Perhaps she wants to maintain a masculine role in your relationship.

    I'd say enjoy the ride, and the fingering... and when she's ready to let you into her panties she will...

    you can't always rush trust

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    • johnho

      Let her wear the strap on.

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  • shuggy-chan

    well it oky to enjoy this for now, but im of the mind "sharing is caring"

    and it be boring to be the one dominating all the time, later u should try to see if she will let u role reverse. and if not the make her BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAAH >xD

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  • Jweezee

    On the rag

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    • iisabel

      i cant believe i didnt think of that!

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  • lc1988

    How long has this been going on? Maybe she's waiting for her Valtrex to kick in.

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    • iisabel

      ...i hope not

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  • I have an ex who was a bit like that. She would give me oral but would not allow me to give her oral; she liked to see me naked but did not like to be naked herself.

    So, why not just relax and enjoy it?

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  • lol123456789

    i think that she is just using you as a sex toy DUMP HER NOW!!

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