Is it normal that she enjoys being my "sex toy"?

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My girlfriend told me the other day that she takes pleasure in being my "sex toy" to play with as I like. This shocked me a little as I have always been tender and affectionate in the bedroom, making her feel loved and sexually satisfied. She went on to say that she would happily fulfill all my desires and would do anything I ask of her. The best part of this is that she enjoys it so much and has the highest sex drive I've ever experienced. She knows that I love her with all my heart and would do anything for her, but she still enjoys the feeling of being "used" by me. She said she has felt this way since she lost her virginity to me a few years ago.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining at all (quite the opposite). I was just wondering, is it normal that she enjoys feeling used to pleasure me?

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Based on 272 votes (251 yes)
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Comments ( 11 )
  • Echoes
    13 years ago

    Lucky bastard, stop whining and go enjoy your toy.

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  • djarambah
    7 years ago

    yep, it's very normal.. maybe your dick very small..

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  • Nephew7
    10 years ago

    Normal but watch out she could be a.cheater

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  • Chellyy
    11 years ago

    I'm the same as her ... I always thought I was normal for it :p

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  • LF4sDLX
    13 years ago

    You're pretty lucky. You earned it! Treated her nice and made her feel very comfortable. If you're not naturally to dominate try a little harder (for her) in the bedroom. Shell always be there for you

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  • ogkushgirl
    13 years ago

    i went through a phase like this. then one day, the guy i was dating said to me, "why do you get turned on by men degrading you" talking about last time we made love, and several other times, i would get turned on and say something like, "do whatever you want to me" because i liked being dominated, but i never questioned it as a self respect thing. most likely, she just likes making you happy, some people are "givers" the act of giving is what makes them happy, in other words they get more satisfaction giving a gift than the person receiving it.

    sounds like you scored, those kind of girls never cheat. cause they arent narcissists out for themselves.

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  • lanceosm
    13 years ago

    They need like buttons on commits like I like echos

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    hey as long as you love and respect each other then why not. i enjoy the romantic sex but the hardcore, animal hair pulling, butt spanking sex is very hot too. you need to keep up the spice in any relationship. try outdoors sex, thats hot as. knowing you could get caught at any time is such a turn on. but dont blame me if you get arrested lol

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    And to the other comment, yes, if the man treats his woman the way she deserves and satisfies her, then she will do anything for him.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Yes it's normal. A woman loves being dominated by her man in bed. We love feeling overpowered and the forcefulness that a man can have, but only a woman really in love will truly appreciate when a man dominates her during sex. It's our way of fully opening ourselves to the man we love and showing that absolute vounerable side of us knowing even though you may dominate and forceful when we ask, we also know you won't hurt us more than we would like. :-)

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  • deepthought33
    13 years ago

    I would have to say that most woman would react exactly like your girlfriend if they were treated as specially as you say you treat her. I would pretty much do anything for my husband as it is and if he treated me more like THAT I swear the sky wouldn't even be the limit!
    You obviously make her feel extremely special and satisfied. You put her sex drive through the roof and she wants to give you whatever you could want in the bedroom.

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