Is it normal that she does not want to see me again?

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Hi, I'll be as brief as possible.
So I met a girl (I'm a guy), let's call her "Anna". We have a friend in common whose name is, umm, lets say "Connie". Before I met Anna personally, Connie told me that she (Anna) saw me once in her birthday and felt an intense attraction towards me (I didn't even notice her lol). So we decided to arrange a party, thus I could meet Anna. Well, at that party we got to know each other a little bit and I kissed her. The next day Connie told me that her friend really liked me, and I became aware that she turned me on, a lot. Then I asked her for a date and she accepted: we hung out for a short time, we talked a lot without those annoying, irritating, etc. awkward silences and kissed for a while. At the end of it she said that she really enjoyed it. She gave me a huge kiss and then said goodbye, after agreeing to have a new date.
A week later I called her, with no response. So I decided to send her a text message: no signs of life :(. A day has passed and I feel quite sad and dissapointed, I mean WTF my friend told me that she was sick to death of hearing Anna talking about me, and now she dissapears.
BTW she's 20 and I'm 24.
Thank you :)

PS: I did not fuck her.
PS2: English is not my native language, so if you see any grammar mistakes feel free to correct me.

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Based on 58 votes (25 yes)
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  • jax906
    11 years ago

    The saying "men are from Mars and women are from Venus," or however it goes, becomes more true after every relationship I've been in. Women are so hard to figure out.

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    • paradox90
      11 years ago

      Unfortunately yes :(

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  • Jeaneathean
    11 years ago

    "Women are like fairground rides. Fucking mental. You get off one, and you get on another."

    I think this was Dryden. Or possibly Jay's dad off The Inbetweeners.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      "I've already told you: the only way to a woman's heart is along the path of torment. I know none other as sure."

      -Marquis de Sade

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    • paradox90
      11 years ago

      Like the quote.

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      • Jeaneathean
        11 years ago

        It is one of my favourites. Especially recently, unfortunately. Seem to attract and be attracted by the wrong type.....

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  • solytis
    11 years ago

    I think you should try to contact her, maybe there is a misunderstanding

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    • paradox90
      11 years ago

      Yes, my idea is to contact my friend (she's trustworthy, I know her since we were kids) and get some information. At least I want to know what turned this girl off!

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