Is it normal that she acted this way?

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I have a friend who is very touchy and flirts with me when we are in front of our friends/public. Even her friends would sometimes tease her about it, and she would become quiet and embarrassed afterwards. When we are alone, she's not touchy/flirty. She never initiates calls or texts. Most of the time she would never reply to my texts or answer my calls. I tried asking her to hangout and she just changed the topic. Is it normal that she acted this way?

We are both girls. Right now both of us are ignoring each other.

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago

    I have no more idea than you of what's going on, but flirting in public is safe, while flirting and casual touching in private can easily move on to more serious stuff.

    She could be a tease, or maybe she's just trying things to see how they make her feel. Her retreating after you asked to spend time with her obviously indicates she's not comfortable with the idea of being alone with you. Maybe she's conflicted about her feelings for you, or she's decided that she definitely doesn't want to risk something serious happening with you.

    Don't take it personally. She has the right to decide who she spends time with and what she does with them. Her opinions and feelings are based on a whole range of experiences and all kinds of complicated stuff going on in her head, and they don't necessarily have any basis in reality or the person you truly are.

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    • janet_helio
      5 years ago

      I guess you're right. The reason I started to ignore her is because a mutual friend of ours told me that her conservative parents kinda pressured her to get married and have kids. Both of us are in our mid-20s. Even though it's painful, I guess I'm doing the right thing for both of us. I knw its painful for her too as she looked away quickly once I caught her staring at me. She looked really sad at that time.

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  • nikkiclaire
    5 years ago

    She probably likes you but is afraid to say it, so she flirts in front of others to gauge their reaction. That way she can play it off as nothing.

    If you like her, flirt back and subtly let her know her feelings are ok and requited.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    5 years ago

    She's being friendly just for show and doesn't really care. Don't bother with her.

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago

    I've responded on your duplicate post

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