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Im a girl, and ever since i started having sex it has meant almost nothing to me. Is that normal? Other girls are always saying how it makes them feel so connected to the person and i just feel like it makes me less connected
I have felt like that before so I think its pretty normal maybe you just haven't found that 1 certain some one. Do you have past emotional traumas that could be getting in the way? I could see that being part of the problem. Its sad if you can't get that wonderful emotional rush thats the best part of sex to me. Good luck I hope you can find your way thru this.
How can you have sex and not feel anything ?
I mean you are bumping and grinding skin on skin and giving your body to somebody else , even if only for a brief time.
So , what you are saying is that you are having totally meaningless and mindless sex , correct ?
So , you are just fucking just to fuck because its the thing to do to be in the in crowd , right ?
Well it feels good thats why i continue to do it. But when i say i feel nothing i mean literally afterwards i feel no connection, no attachment. Even when it was witha bf. Sorry should have clarified
Thanks for the clarification, that does make the situation a bit different. Maybe you're having sex with people you wouldn't otherwise have any connection with?
If you're ok with having no connection after sex, that's fine too
I think this is quite practical. Do you feel a connection to people through other things apart from sex, or do you prefer giving the whole attachment thing the swerve?