Is it normal that sex is that important in the relationship he wants ?

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I knew my ex since I was 18. He was my prom date. We stayed together for 2 months but he broke up because I won't have sex with him ( because of my culture And my religious beliefs ) but he stayed in touch for 3 years, we kept dating,but he leaves then he's back telling missing me.. but now he said we both know we mean a lot to each but we should cut it off in order to move on, our relationship is getting nowhere. He might be right he wants sex and I don't , I still find him sweet, romantic, handsome and fun..I can't find someone better than him I mean I still Have feelings for him and I don't know what to do to be in relation again ...

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  • eatableyou
    11 years ago

    Ty guys ^^

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  • Fabulous
    11 years ago

    As James brown would say, he'll naw

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    11 years ago

    However. I hope you do find someone who shares your beliefs and I really hope everything works out for you :)

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    11 years ago

    Also sex is a big part of a relationship. Imo not the biggest but big none the less. It's also something that is usually a choice between two people. Therefore it can feel unfair to have the choice made for both of you by the other person, especially if you don't share the same religious belief. But that doesn't mean I didn't respect her belief and choice I did, and I really cared about her as I'm sure he does for you. I felt bad feeling this way and I did feel shallow but I realised the problem starts on a difference of opinion on sex but it affects so much more in the relationship.

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    11 years ago

    Well. For me it's a grey area. My ex was deeply religious and wanted to wait. I respected her belief but being told that you can't have sex at the age of 18 is tough, I don't know about your beliefs but my ex was saving herself for marrage. 18 is such a young age and it's sometimes hard to tell if the feelings are strong enough to wait for such a long time and for something so serious and it puts a strain on the relationship mentioning marrage in that way. Plus as I said 18 is a young age I don't know about him but I was a virgin which made it even more difficult.

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    • kingofcarrotflowers
      11 years ago

      I can see how it may seem strange but for me It was strange that this girl I had strong feelings for turned round in the 3rd week in the relationship and said that we can't have sex untill marrage and that we would both have to wait untill then. In a normal relationship marrage isn't mentioned at week 3. It's scary at that age

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  • eatableyou
    11 years ago

    Yeah I am ..

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Are you attracted to him?

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