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I've been with my boyfriend since we were 14, I lost my virginity to him at 15 and now we're 17. Is it normal that sex still hurts? It's not as painful anymore as it was the first time but it's really uncomfortable and I can't even get close to having an orgasm, is it because he's circumsized or I'm still too tight? help!
You're doing something wrong there.
Is he very long? It might be that his penis is hitting the back of your vagina, causing pain.
How's the foreplay? you not being aroused enough can cause you a bit of pain, not only because arousal = lubrication = easier sexy fun times but also because arousal = looser vagina = easier sexy fun times.
he's a pretty good size, I find it big but it's not too big.
the foreplay is amazing I'm definitely very aroused
Well which kind of discomfort. Does it feel like he's hitting something or going too rough? Or is it like you're extremely self conscious and dislike being naked in front of him and so it's ruining the mood and making sex crap?
You're a little contradictory in your descriptions (i read your other comments) so I would need as much info as possible.
Long story short though not normal that you're still in pain.
ha okay I guess I'll try to explain this as best as possible, when he's first going in it's so painful that I try to push him off but then when I'm ready to try again he'll go slow then fast, we'll normally do missionary because that hurts the least for me but it'll just feel uncomfortable for me, having his penis inside of me feels uncomfortable, not really painful but not like I could orgasm from it either, unless its doggy style then it's really painful!
So you've been having painful sex for 2 years and still the relationship works? That's good news to me, not that I have such a huge one that it hurts my girlfriend, but our sexuality is just terrible and I live fearing it will mean the end of our relationship any time soon. Your case perhaps proves to me that some women are willing to stay in relationships despite trouble in the bedroom.
well it's sex, I still enjoy it but it is uncomfortable, I still am extremely aroused during the whole thing
I hope you and your girlfriend stay together, the sex could get better
Hey, thanks!!! Actually, it's my fault it's so bad, and I do trust it will get better (say, I will get better). What I can't be sure about is whether we'll hold on in the meanwhile or if it will end up destroying our relationship. Time will say.
I've got the same issue with my boyfriend. He's got himself a rather large member and It's a tad painful. If it's any consolation, we've been together 3 years and I don't plan on leaving him. There is a product out there you can buy. It's like a doughnut you put on your penis that takes a few inches off. I haven't been able to find it myself, but I hear it exists. You and your gf might want to look into that