Is it normal that sex is boring to me if it's not spontaneous?

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the whole stopping to put on a condom thing in the middle of a very passionate moment just kinda kills it for me. On top of that not feeling very much with the condom on doesn't help. I just end up getting bored and frustrated then I loose my hard on. A lot of times my girlfriend ends up crying cuz she thinks it's her fault.

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  • 69
    10 years ago

    it takes 10 fucking seconds to put one on

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    • myboyfriendsbitch
      10 years ago

      ...says the most referenced sexual position. What's wrong with you, OP?

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      • 69
        10 years ago

        yes, i partake in safe sex

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  • dirtybirdy
    10 years ago

    Spontaneous. That's how I like my combustion.

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    • NotStrangeBird
      10 years ago

      I like my combustion boosted by some sort of compressor device or maybe nitrous.

      I like my sex rigidly scheduled to the second.

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      • dirtybirdy
        10 years ago

        Oh you're so strict!!!

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        • NotStrangeBird
          10 years ago

          Ma'am, if you follow me into this airport bathroom we can get this all straightened out right now...

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          • dirtybirdy
            10 years ago

            I'm glad I wore a skirt...with cargo pockets! Wooo!!

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    10 years ago

    Just wear a condom at all times so you'll get used to it. It will be exciting to make your girlfriend think you're not even wearing one but because she didn't see you put it on.

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  • ygrowup
    10 years ago

    This is very normal for many, sex should be exciting and new, even to the point of being almost dangerous. Have her put it on under the table at a fancy restaurant, and then meet up in the bathroom, that will keep you excited! ,

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    • RomeoDeMontague
      10 years ago

      That illegal and in prison he is not going to get spontaneous sex with his girlfriend but another dude.

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  • shuggy-chan
    10 years ago

    Surprise butt sex

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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    Sorry, your gonna have to get over the condom thing. Have you tried a thinner brand?

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