Is it normal that sarcasm turns me on?
I'm a sarcastic, joking guy. I LOVE it when girls can reciprocate this behavior. For instance, if we both keep up a conversation where we're being facetious, that kinda turns me on. Is this normal?
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I'm a sarcastic, joking guy. I LOVE it when girls can reciprocate this behavior. For instance, if we both keep up a conversation where we're being facetious, that kinda turns me on. Is this normal?
Most attraction is based upon a response we get in our limbic system. This is the part of the brain most associated with empathy. While a large percentage of what we are attracted to is based on body language and tone and variance of someone's voice. A small percentage is what we say. It would naturally make sense that you would be attracted to someone who is not only receptive to the same things you like, but that you would also be receptive to their behavior when it parallels your own. Some of us like to call it synergy. Mainly because it builds upon itself. Each time you interact like this you are building a good rapport with that person. They are also likewise digging you in the process. Thus the reason they are reciprocating your behavior. I'd say you shouldn't ignore this feeling. However, I'm also not encouraging any rash behavior either. Continue to try to interact with that person, see where it goes from there. You may end up meeting the love of your life, if you are lucky.
This is a hhuugge turn on for me!! My husband and I spent most of our courtship playing verbal volleyball like that. It's an intellect thing, I think. Quick witted smart guys are soo hot to me!!
haha i wish all women where turned on by sarcasm im really sarcastic =] <------ not being sarcastic
Man, if your joking around it is completely normal. It just shows your being open with each other.
yeah, thats awsome, i am a girl and a smart ass, i love the whitty repuarte. it's cool that thats what trips your trigger, maybe if more guys were like you woman wouldnt try to play dumb and silent. keep it going, YOU ROCK!
Really?
wow I didn't know I could use that as a tool of seduction. haha. =P
But I think I know what you mean, from my p.o.v. (as a sarcastic female) I do enjoy when a guy can keep up with my dialogue/jokes etc. Fun stuff!
Haha of course that's normal. It's alright if a girl with a sense of humor turns you on. That turns me on too.