Is it normal that relationships scare me?

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Ok so whenever I start getting close to a guy I freak out a bit, not just on the relationship side but on the physical side too. The idea of being so open and close to a guy scares me and even more so the thought of doing anything with a guy(Sexually ofcourse) absoloutly terrifies me. I believe this has something to do with my self esteem (Or lack of) I believe myself to be overweight and not very attractive at all and this probably doesn't help. So anyway is this normal? or am I a complete freak?

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  • Crudhouse
    12 years ago

    Fix the things that you think the guy might not like about you and the fear will subside.

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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    This is very common. I think a lot of people are nervous when entering a relationship and sex doesn't help. However, I think that as long as you're with someone you trust then it won't be so bad. Don't put yourself down, instead put yourself up.

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  • truecheese
    12 years ago

    I think it's extremely normal. If you have emotions I see it being very normal. The girls that aren't scared are the heartless ones.

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  • Aurora93
    12 years ago

    I hope so... otherwise I'm a freak too :)

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