Is it normal that reading this made me extremely mad?

I read a news article about a week ago about a woman who had an affair with a married man, here's how it went according to the article, it all started when she met him at a party and she claims that they "connected immediately" and then a while he asked her out and she looked at his finger and saw no ring so she said yes, she kept seeing him and the relationship started to get serious, then he told her he was married and she broke it off with him and then the next day he showed up at her house and then she claims that she knew what she was doing was wrong but the love seed had already been planted, she kept seeing him and knew that he would never leave his wife as he loved her and she loved him, they went out to dinners and stuff and then rented hotel rooms at times to get sexual, then a few weeks later she woke up and was feeling sick and then late on her period, she knew something was wrong and took a pregnancy test, and yes she was pregnant, she didn't know what to do, she claims she couldn't have the baby, she couldn't tell the guy, so she decided to have an abortion, she went to the clinic with a friend and said when they walked out of the clinic she had tears coming down her face, well here is what I think, I think first of all your actions were disgusting and completely inexcusable, why don't you try keeping your legs closed and stay away from a married man, second of all, I doubt you loved him, your an immature slut who wouldn't know what real love is if it hit with brute force, if you really loved him you would be together with no else in the picture and the moment you got pregnant or found out you were would and should go down as one of the happiest moments of your life if not the happiest, more like you just loved sneaking around like a slut or loved the idea of having an affair and loved his d***, and the part that makes the most angriest is the fact that you had an abortion, its basically murder!!!!!!!!! you should have never ever fallen pregnant in that fashion, you basically choose to have an abortion and kill that poor innocent baby that was inside you all because your a disgusting human being and you don't have the slightest moral bone in your body, you should never ever have had an affair with a married dude to start with and then on top that you can't even take enough responsibility to ensure you don't fall pregnant and all cause you can't enough god damn responsibility once it happened, you choose to abort, disgusting!!!! You should have kept the baby, once you fucked up deal with it!!!!!! You made many wrong decisions and you should have at leas had the baby and if you couldn't afford to support it put it up for adoption at least the baby has a chance at life and to make something of itself and get to live in our world, that damn prick who was cheating on his wife is obviously no better disgusting dog piece of shit is also to blame but really it's her who choose to have an abortion the disgusting whore!!!!!! Honestly that story just makes me raging mad, is it normal that it makes me raging mad to the point where I couldn't care less if both people involved dropped dead today!!!!!! Especially her!!!!! So what do people think? Who agrees or thinks I have valid points? I hate that woman involved so much part of me wants her to get such overwhelming guilt she decides to hang herself!!!!!!!!

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  • Boojum

    I guess you think you've got life all figured out? You've got a set of nice, neat rules which you'll always follow, so you'll always know the right thing to do, and you'll always do it? The sun will shine on you every day, adorable birdies will twitter in your ear, and everything will always be perfect for you, right?

    Good luck with that.

    The story obviously pushed your hot buttons. How we react to things usually says more about us than it does about what we're observing.

    People make mistakes. People do things we think we wouldn't if we were in their shoes.

    But that's the thing: you've never been in that woman's shoes. You read a story that sketched the outlines of what happened and it filled you with self-righteous rage for some reason, but there is simply no way you can truly understand what her life has been like, what went on between her and the married man, what she felt, or the true reasons for her decisions.

    I hope you have around you people with a better understanding of human frailties than your own when you make a mistake.

    It's certain you will screw up.

    At least once.

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    • I have made mistakes in the past and they have impeded my progress and potential path to success, but nothing to that magnitude, yes I'm not the woman and I don't know exactly what she was feeling, but don't sympathise with her as if she is some saint, dirty whore was wrapping her legs around a married man!!!!! And that's bad enough in itself, homewrecking slut!!!! on top of that they couldn't be careful enough to avoid pregnancy!!!! If she was moral enough to do the right thing this never would have happened, couldn't care less what she carries around with her for her life and also hope the cheating prick gets found out and left penniless, both just make me so sick and mad and neither deserves one iotia of sympathy nor understanding in my opinion, there are different degrees of mistakes and these ones are inexcusable, will be keen to see what other responses I get, I have a cousin in my family and the poor woman was cheated on by her then arsehole husband!!!! she's really nice and didn't deserve it, these kind of stories/issues shit me and it's sickening to think they go on in society, I know they do but it's just disgusting!!!!

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      • Boojum

        It sounds like the issues raised by the story have brought a lot of anger and fear to the surface for you.

        You don't know the woman. What she did has not directly affected you or anyone you know. And yet you seem to be filled with so much rage about her decisions and actions.

        What you say comes across as self-righteous, sanctimonious, and judgmental. I have no idea why that is. Maybe you can only make sense of the world in the terms of some black and white religion. Maybe you've always felt forced to walk some narrow line of morality because of fear that violating the rules laid down by others would result in nobody loving you.

        What I do know is that you have given this stranger power over you. Her actions have resulted in you allowing yourself to be filled with incoherent hatred.

        Don't you think that's a little odd?

        Finally, consider the fact that the self-righteous rage you express would be right at home in one part of the world today. In areas ruled by ISIS, they stone adulterous women. Would that happening to her satisfy your desire for her to suffer for her decisions?

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        • Everyone has their thing and it just bothers me and I see it as completely wrong, I actually don't feel it's odd at all.

          I'm not saying that should happen to her at all, I'm just saying that it's disgusting and wrong, I'm not actually calling for anything bad to happen to her but I wouldn't feel sorry for her if for example she was found out by the wife of the guy and she decided to do something bad to her.

          She probably goes through a lot of emotional pain on a day to day basis and I don't have one iotia of sympathy for her, so that's where I sit, next time she should twice before being an immoral home wrecking whore!!!!!!

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  • bob7

    Surprisingly , i read it all despite that the concept of paragraphs wasnt used

    But i agree the women is a thirsty slut but abortion was the right decision in her case , unfortunately

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  • SmokeEverything

    People need to focus less on forcing themselves into this bland "family and work" marriage lifestyle and just live how they want from the beginning, then you don't wind up with a family you resent and a bunch of secret affairs. Marriage is a dated, unecessary institution.

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    • You have a point, that's probably one of the catalysts for affairs and divorce, people get pressured into it by parents or friends, marriage and family is a beautiful thing but not for everyone, make sure it's what you want before you choose to get married.

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  • She should have had the baby and then given it up for adoption, I didn't say she should be the parent as in to look after it for life, dirty whore doesn't deserve the privilege, there's a difference between being a parent by the definition and actually looking after/raising a kid till age 18, story is absolutely not made up!!!! Was in an official newspaper, and yes that's exactly what the prick deserves 1\2 his pay cheque gone for 18 years or else he should Have thought better before he went screwing around behind his wife's back the disrespectful cunt!!!! people used to have more respect for each other once upon a time, Many aspects of today's world are fucked!!!!! And I'm actually a guy so well done for assuming I'm a woman, super intelligence on display here ladies and gentlemen, I do bloody hell well believe it's murder and if they really had shit going on in their lives they wouldn't be going around screwing married people!!!! They should be working on what is going on and attempting to fix it!!! BOOM!!!

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    • Boojum

      Oh, well, the fact that you're a man makes it so much more understandable.

      Men - of a certain narrow-minded, insecure type - feel incredibly challenged when they read about women having affairs. They can't help being fearful that the woman in their life is being unfaithful. Often with good reason, because they know deep-down that the woman isn't really happy being with them.

      Men of a certain type are also very good at insisting that the product of the fusion of their sacred sperm with an ovum must be allowed to develop, regardless of the woman's wishes or even her medical needs.

      This woman is not a "dirty whore" as you insist on calling her. She's a woman who had sex with a man she believed she loved (although you don't even have enough respect for her as another human being to accept that she felt that).

      Knowing you're a man, it's very clear you have serious issues relating to women and trust. Frankly, you sound like the sort of person no sane woman would want to be with, so you may well be justified in those fears.

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      • Yes personally, I would hate to be cheated on, I would never engage in such gratuitous disgusting behaviour and I would be gutted if I was cheated on, I'm actually single ATM so it's not something that I fear is currently happening to me, yes she is a whore!!! if she wasn't she would have broken it off the second she found it he was married, NO FUCKIN BULLSHIT EXCUSES!!!!, seperate right from wrong, yes I admittedly have some trust issues which I feel is relatively normal, nothing wrong with being a cautious person.

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    • bob7

      who are u talking to

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      • Boojum

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  • Hahah I wrote it in a rush, I'm usually better with paragraphs etc, at least I had all my exclamation marks, commas and contractions correctly placed :-) and thanks for agreeing about her but she still should have had the baby and told him especially! Would perhaps make the dirty prick be more respectful in future, I hope his wife found and left his ass penniless!!!!!!!

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    • bob7

      Thats exactly what i dont want ,that baby to live without parents and then again the wife's kids too will have seperated parents , no win situation

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      • Sort of no win, but what if she spoke to he guy and went through all possibilities and options and even then she could have had it and given up for adoption he either would have agreed for her to keep it or if they were so "in love" maybe he would have left his wife the arsehole, it's just that poor innocent foetus doesn't deserve that :-(

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        • bob7

          So you prefer the innocent cell over his original innocent kids ?

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          • At least his current kids (if he had any) would still be alive, she should have told him defientely no matter how hard the decision was to do so, he deserves to be found out by his whole family!!!

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            • bob7

              Being alive but being depressed is good ? My cousins parents divorced because of a similar story when he was a kid

              I swear he became so depressed he wouldnt leave house or pass anything at school

              So yea getting rid of a cell is the smarter safer decision

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