Is it normal that previous sex relations make me nauseous?

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For some reason, everytime i think of my previous sex relations, i get real nervous-like. I tense up or start shaking or become completely distracted and blank out.
I've been raped before but that's never made me actlike this.
My rape symptoms were just paranoia, panic attacks and constant chills. And i havent had those symtoms in almost a full year.

So all of a sudden, i get these new symptoms whenever i think of past sex. Or sex in general. And just writing this, i've tensed up alot.

Is this normal?

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  • BfingIToucher
    12 years ago

    I think it has everything to do with being raped, and not dealing adequately with the aftermath of that experience. I am so very sorry that this happened to you, and hope you will discuss this in therapy or support group. I think you will find that for many, many women a history of rape affects all future sexual experiences in some way.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    12 years ago

    Oftentimes when someone has been raped it carries over into their normal sex lives, that's only logical. Also if you google rape trauma syndrome, recovery will have phases. Some of these phases will be less painful than others.

    There are probably things you still haven't consciously come to terms with, and once you face them things should improve.

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  • robbieforgotpw
    10 years ago

    Do u shart in bed?

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  • tego
    12 years ago

    it has happen already get ur self back. is just tat u were not prepared to hv sex yet. so relax n allow ur lover to give u good sex n disvirgin u d right way.

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