Is it normal that people respond to the more darker posts rudely?

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I've read some pretty horrible posts about disgust in fat people, taking joy in another's pain and wanting someone to die a slow death. But why do other responses need to tell them how horrible they are? The fact they are even on this site means they are questioning it themselves.

There's such irony to a person saying to someone 'you are a sick fuck and I hope you die'. Why can't people just respond in a mature manner as opposed to feeling the need to bring out their best insults? I was one of the people that posted something that was honest and disgusting about myself and of course people were going to respond in a negative manner but why do then have to go into the details about my life? They make all these assumptions about what sort of person I am on the basis of a few words I wrote.

I've tried writing long detailed posts but they are so long that no one even bothers to read them and I get nothing out of it and just I end up writing to justify myself for the people who can take the time to insult me but not read about my issue.

Nobody likes being judged on the basis of a few horrible truths about them. Sure some commenters can claim to never watch porn, to see the true value in a person, to not once feel a hateful thought against someone who didn't deserve it, to be pure. But the fact remains they are on here.

Anyone else had this sort of experience or have you being one of the people to do the verbal bashing?

P.S. To the person that said a month ago that I probably have a small dick. Yes it's small, spectacularly small, probably couldn't do all the perverted crap that I don't want to do to a woman. But it's my dick dammit and I can aim my piss because of it.

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    10 years ago

    No, the fact that someone is on this site does not mean that they are questioning things like that at all, how can you talk about not making assumptions when you just assume that about everyone on here. You know why I'm here? it's a mixture of bordem, curiosity, wanting to help people and reading comments of awsome people who I respect and find funny, I think you have an unhealthy view on humanity if you think everyone is like that. Plus I would agree with you if a contraversial topic was brought up for discussion in a sensitive and mature manner and someone responded like that but I've seen many posts just calling fat people gross and some calling people the "n" word, if anyone does that and especially if they use an insult like that I feel that the people hurt or offended have the right to express how they feel ( within reason)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      You've disagreed with me in a polite manner and I tip my hat to you. I have to disagree with you though when you say I have an unhealthy view on humanity, like I wrote before my few words don't sum me up as a person and my single assumption that I made hardly defines my views on humanity.
      Also the reason I believe this site to be a place where people question themselves is because the site has question mark in it's title the very phrase 'is it normal' has a tone of doubt and question.

      As you have raised this place is not just a place of question but of expression and interaction.

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      • kingofcarrotflowers
        10 years ago

        If only all my disagrements with people on this site could be dealt with in the way you have

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  • starie
    10 years ago

    If someone is going to post something personal to them online for the world to see then they should be fully aware of the variety of people in this world, in other words, the variety of possible opinions out there waiting to be given.

    Not everyone is the same and not everyone will react to your post in the same way. Some will be sensative to your matter and some simply won't.

    No one likes to be judged but that won't stop people from judging them... If you're going to post on a site like this, where you are actually asking for other peoples opinions, then you should know that that is what is going to happen- you're going to be judged. Fairly and/or unfairly. If you can't handle it then maybe you shouldn't post your doubts on here until you can?

    People will judge and make unfair assumptions, all you can do is take into account the replies that seem fair and understanding to you. In other words, ignore the rude comments.

    Not everyone is mature- another possible/shorter answer x)

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I've noticed a trend in much of recent Western culture...many revel in ridicule of people's shortcomings.
    I think it's twisted and disgusting.

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  • shuggy-chan
    10 years ago

    All I remember about this post now is that u have a tiny weiner, maybe u should change the order of your argument to have the climax in the middle

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