Is it normal that people avoid me so much?

So I mean like pretty bad. I'll talk to someone and say hi and they will just walk off. I had to do a group activity and got up and went up to a guy (who I knew). I said you wanna group up and he ignored me and walked off to another group so I sat by myself and not even an adult noticed me :(. I'm a normal healthy boy, I'm not ugly but people will just give me a look like I'm a terrible person. I know guys that are 'mental' and everyone's nice to them but I walk in and they just hate me b4 I say anything. Never really had any friends and people I know pretty well completely ignore me :( (can you maybe comment and help me too)

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Comments ( 25 )
  • anti-hero

    Do you shower often?

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    • LOL:)

      thats out of line

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      • anti-hero

        It was a real question, I know people who stink and don't know it and I avoid them.

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  • fluffyluv

    I would try asking someone why everyone doesn't like you. Their response might hurt but it will at least give you an idea of what you need to improve. If that doesn't work i would suggest transferring to a secondary school.

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  • chicken471bologna

    Maybe it's just because you're ugly.

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    • Jman9595

      Yeah I'll take advice from a jobless troll in your moms basement

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  • blaster

    I've come to the conclusion that , now how do I put this without it sounding lIke I mean everyone or you guys for instance. But people in general are pretty stupid , they're usually impressed by the most transparent , shallow , I don't know how to put it but you notice it all the time.
    Sometimes you see the most boring person you've ever met sitting around bs'ing on for hrs with some absolute garbage that I could only listen to for a minute, and there's a crowd a round them hanging onto every word- for hrs . Go figure !

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  • Avant-Garde

    This has happened to me before. I remember a few summers ago everyone in the group acted like I was a monster. I'm not a social person and often times I'm very shy and passive. But I don't get why people have to act Like that. Maybe someone made a rumour about you or maybe they're just being assholes. Surely you could find someone to like you. If not, then try to make friends outside of school. Take classes at community college, get a job or get to know some of your neighbours. Don't let those jerks bother you unless it starts to get out of hand. Then take some form of action.

    Good luck!

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    • Jman9595

      Well my principal hated me and spread rumors after he kicked me expelled me for no reason.

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      • Avant-Garde

        Then, that's probably what caused the issue.

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      • NeuroNeptunian

        Sorry but I have a hard time believing that your principal just walked up to you, kicked you, expelled you, and talked shit about you for literally no reason.

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        • Jman9595

          It was a fucking private school. They get away with that stuff

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Kids in school are assholes.
    I know that my husband is not that aggressive socially and this happens to him sometimes. They might be so into whatever the hell they are doing and thinking that they don't even notice you. I know that I do that by accident sometimes.

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    • JustinBiebsFan#1

      he needs to wash his ass better

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  • kit291

    as long as you know you've not done anything to hurt them or annoy them then it's there loss and you live your life like you want to.

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  • alv1592

    It's hard to tell why, but it's their loss. As long as you're not doing anything wrong, don't feel bad.

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  • GuessWho

    You're the one that "doesn't exist." They will die if they talk to you. (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Another_%28novel%29)

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  • Marisol

    Their loss. Don't give any care for the fact that they are ignoring you. I was never popular in any place, so you are not the only one. I got over it. Do what you have to do, but know that there is nothing wrong with you (you should not it).

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  • fairytaledream

    if u are still in high school....then just believethat n real life....people who travel the world and have an open mind will not judge you by your looks. wish u all the best.

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  • kittylitter101

    aw i'm sorry :( i'd just wait it out, someone will come along one day and be your friend :)

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  • LOL:)

    I have the same problem, but don't let it get to you. If you let it get to you, nothing good will come out of it. My advice is: Don't bottle up any feelings, and dont let ANYTHING get to you. You are stronger than you believe you are. Its their loss if they don't like you.

    From what I can tell from your post, you seem like the kind of person I would have as a friend. I am a friend of everyone, especially those who think they don't have any.

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  • Justme00

    I'm so sorry :( that's terrible. I agree with others about asking. Hopefully they can tell you instead of being a prick. If you have at least one decent person who has stuck by you, maybe they can tell you or ask.
    Good luck! I hope they grow up. People can be so cruel..

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  • hamwich

    Maybe they can't hear what you're saying. Are you really soft spoken by any chance?

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  • floodimoo123

    They're rude. I know I would never do that to anyone. Introduce yourself to other around your school. I'm pretty sure not everyone is an asshole like that. You will make friends with the right people. Trust me, it happened to me.

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  • Same...........

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