Is it normal that people always think i am gay?

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My personality has certain traits that makes people think I am gay. Yet, every single one of this quirks has its reasons.

I am overly respectful with women, because I have 3 sisters and my mom raised me that way. So whenever I speak about a woman I never make nasty comments. I would never even say a woman is "hot", I would use words as "pretty", "beautiful", etc. I am always a gentleman and I am nice to all girls, even if I am not interested in them.

My dad cheated on my mom several times, so I don't like promiscuity and slutty looking girls. So even if a girl is gorgeous, I immediately lose interest if she acts or looks promiscuous. I also always look for a serious girlfriend, I believe in fidelity and I don't like one night stands.

I have a really low sex drive, because of depression. So at times I truly feel indifferent towards sex. That has made even one of my girlfriends think I was gay.

I respect homosexuals, because my two best friends are a gay and a lesbian. So when homosexuals talk to me, I never show disgust and I am kind with them. When guys flirt with me, I respectfully reject them as well.

I look gay, because my face just happens to be feminine. I have curly and long eyelashes, as well as thick lips and well shaped eyebrows... I was born that way, and it is not my fault.

And well, what do you think people? Is it truly normal for people to think I am gay?

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  • NarmalicyIsSubjective
    10 years ago

    It's normal, but it is not right. People should never judge someone on just actions and appearance. They should always look at motivation and reasoning.

    I've had the same problem as you.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    I don't think that it has much to do with your features. They don't sound "gay". My family was accusing of me being gay since I was a small child. Other people in my lifetime, during my younger have come under the impression that I was gay, mainly due to the fact that at the time I believed this to be true and like an idiot told them. I'm a bisexual who goes with periods/bouts of asexuality. My sex drive seems to be low so, perhaps that's it. I also cross dress. Despite this, I have been flirted with by both genders, mainly females. I do have to wonder whether these people think I am a male or if they know I am a female and they are just inclined towards my gender.

    I know it's difficult but, as long as you know the truth, that is fine. Let them wallow in their ignorance for not believing you.

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  • halfemptyhalffull
    10 years ago

    Who cares what people think.
    Just be who you are.

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  • green_boogers
    10 years ago

    Maybe you have unknowingly sissified yourself by playing with your ass while you masturbate.

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  • Riddler
    10 years ago

    So being respectful to women means you have no interest in them? That is just stupid. A lot of men are very disrespectful to women and will go out of their way to demean them. Its silly for them not to appreciate this.

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  • Oka
    10 years ago

    While it is normal for people to think that way, not to say it is acceptable, I believe the traits you have shared are excellency among that of a potential lover for many girls. I very much believe that quite a few men should take pointers from you.

    Never mind what they say, if respect is what makes you gay now, then I am afraid of the state of society.

    Hopefully this doesn't sound too edgy, ahaha.

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago

    Sure, it's normal. If you want to display a different image you might want to take up a sports activity. You really don't have to participate but be a real enthusiast in the NFL (National Football League) or a baseball team. (I mean, really get involved, if you want to change your image.

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