Is it normal that now he feels this way?

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Is it normal my boyfriend of 6 years has a problem now how he appears in front of his friend's?All I asked him to do was call up his best friend for me and ask if his best friend's girlfriend was there so I could hang out with her while he hangs out with his friend.He said that would make him look whipped.He never had that problem before asking for me.We ended up arguing about it.He tells me she probably won't be there anyway.So we drop the fight and he goes with out me.When he get's back I ask him if she was there.He says yes but she didn't really hang out with them and he and his friend played video games and smoked.What do you all think?

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Based on 13 votes (4 yes)
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  • Layla32
    13 years ago

    Bored Guy your awesome!

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  • danooyl
    12 years ago

    I would understand UR boyfriends action. If your bf's friend gf is part of the clique and you're not. It would be appropriate for you to contact her by yourself. But still I don't think it's a big problem. Btw a few questions for you to ponder about. Have you hang out with your bf's clique before and it ended up being awkward? Are you a sociable person? Have you any possible negative traits that the clique (not your bf) dislikes about you? Btw remember to give such stuff times. And read the book ' men are from mars and women from Venus '

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    Hmm, i think he needs some space.

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    • BoredGuy
      13 years ago

      Probly he thinks that your will invade his "guy friends". Personally i would love for my gf wanting to hang out with my friend's gfs. I'm happy, she is happy, sure why not?

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  • Layla32
    13 years ago

    Hey look another in considerate a**! I WANT ADVICE NOT RUDE COMMENTS BACK.

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  • salvatorre
    13 years ago

    Ever consider the girl doesn't want to hang out with you? Or maybe you aren't the all-encompassing portion of your BF's life? Keep with your current actions and it's likely you'll be asking "IIN" about your EX-BF.

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  • Sotchi
    13 years ago

    I wouldn't read too much into it. If you want to be better friends with her, just cut out the middle man. Ask her for her number and call her yourself. That's what I do. My boyfriend also prefers not to ask his friends about that kind of stuff. Plus, I think it's healthier to have it not all linked together like that- like I come off as more independent if he's hanging with his guy friend and me with the girlfriend but we made plans seperately. That way my bf doesn't feel smothered or anything, and then we have our certain days that we make plans all together as a double date.

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  • Layla32
    13 years ago

    I don't mind if he spends time with out me and hangs with his guy friend's.I just find it odd that my boyfriend and his best friend are hanging out and his best friend's girlfriend is hanging out with them and I am not there.Why am I the only girlfriend not hanging out and she is?

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Honestly to me it sounds like he doesn't want you over there with him. Means he's either hiding something or he wants alone time without you. Either way is not ok.

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  • Layla32
    13 years ago

    Wow you guys are a**'s and rude! Have you ever thought maybe I want to be closer friend's with my boyfriend's best friend's girlfriend?And hey I feel it ain't fair that she always hangs out with the guys and I don't.I don't always go with him when he hangs with his friend's.So you two can go screw yourself and your opinions of me.

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    • Ldizzy1234
      13 years ago

      I'm sorry if my comment offended you. I didn't intend for it to sound so bitchy. I'm sorry. I guess I just misunderstood what you were trying to say.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    A part of me thinks that you're too attached, but another part of me is wondering why you care so much to hang out with his friends gf anyway. Maybe it's because you aren't attached, and that you don't wanna bother him and his friend? If that's the case don't go at all. I mean, it sounds almost as if you were a child who needs a toy to keep occupied while the parents chat. You could either, leave him be to hang with his friend, or you could go and just chill with the guys like, no big deal.

    He probably just wants sometime to be with his friends. You don't have to go wherever he goes all the time. You aren't his daughter, you're his girlfriend.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    How selfish you are. Give him some time for himself stop trying to enter into every last part of his life. Are you even friends with his friends girlfriend? if not then you were just trying to invade your boyfriends life which is pathetic and you should grow up. His life doesnt revolv around you you are a part of it not all of it.

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