Is it normal that normal stuff doesn't turn me on?
Im really worried 'cos whenever me and my girlfriend get down to it, the stuff that she does to try and turn me on (like wearing sexy lingerie, acting sexy, teasing and general foreplay stuff) never works, and it makes me feel really bad 'cos then she thinks I'm not attracted to her! Even handjobs and blowjobs don't really do it for me! I only really get hard to such weird fetish shit that I don't really want to tell her about it because it'd be really embarrassing, and even if she did agree to do it I'd probably be too self-consious to actually do it. Anyone else have this problem, and what can I do?