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Every time when I get into a relationship, something happens and we breakup and never talk again. none of them wants to be my friend, they act if they were my enemies. One of them I see at church and he doesn't even say hi, but acts like I'm invisible and doesn't say hi at least.
ISN i mean do they still have feeling for me or what?
There your exes for a reason, It must be you!! and not them sorry. But the one who attends church should know better, other cheek and all that
Why the fuck would they talk to you, none of my exes talk to me. What makes you special.
I don't ever like to stay friends with ex's, way to weird for my liking. "oh hi girl i used to fuck, this is the new girl i'm fucking"
Girls always view guys as friends, thinking after you break up you can go back to just being friends.
Guys always view girls in a sexual way no matter what, so when they break up he can't just be friends so that is why they are weirded out
(I'm a girl with a lot of experience with this)
Hotpants28 hit the nail on the head.
I would never be friends with a girl who dumped/rejected me.
Don't worry about it... Who wants them as friends anyway, they're exes. period. I've tried being friends with an ex once and it's a whole new level of drama. Since then I'm pretty much ignoring their existance.
It's for the best. People should learn to put exes behind them. They are after all- the past.
well at least one in Facebook flirts with me ,the another one is stalking me with phone calls amd messages, but this one particular guy from church is the one im concerned anout. Unless we are in the table together, he wont talk to me. like I said I try to day Hi to him one day, and he ignores me. i dont know if he has feelings for me or if he hates me.
I think you need to think about what you do to them to make them like this. I usually try to end on good terms and ask to stay friends. When I bump into them I make a point of saying hi and asking them how they are. That's usually enough but it's a slow process. Don't epect them to be as before because you aren't together anymore - though that's pretty obvious.
I think that your exes view the break up as a reason to not talk again. I mean they had a relationship with you and now it's over, which is why I think they don't want to be friends. It's possible that they have feelings for you but since the relationship is over there is no reason to make them known.