Is it normal that no one likes me?

So just a bit about myself at first. I am tall, thin, blonde hair and have blue eyes. I am a runway model in training. My friends tell me I have a great sense of humour and a great personality. Isn't that what every guy says he wants? Why is it that i have never even had one guy say to me that I am even the least bit pretty or that they would like to have a relashionship. I have never even been asked out on a date, never been kissed or anything like that and i am a senior in high school.

What is so wrong with me that not a single guy likes me?

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Based on 50 votes (37 yes)
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Comments ( 24 )
  • MisterPanic

    Do you talk to guys a lot? I bet that will help. Keep them at a distance, but if guys can talk to you everything will be much easier. Oh, and I'm 19, never had a relationship and still a virgin. I'm a nice and good looking guy according to my friends (the girls), I was quite populair too in high school. You're perfectly normal, you just haven't met a nice boy yet, but there are so much guys out there, there sure are guys who'll like you.

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  • From the way you've describe you I'll say this, I'd be very intimated to even talk to you. Girls can be intimidating, especially when they're very beautiful. I suggest making the move on a guy you like instead of waiting for him.

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    • littlelulu1999

      well said...

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      • Thanks man.

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  • Rufus

    You're probably a bitch.

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  • BurnaBaby27

    I apologize for coming off as rude, but maybe the OP is unattractive. Just because she mentioned that she is an aspiring model means nothing because most models aren't even pretty they're just tall and slim. And people assume that automatically if you have blonde hair and blue eyes that means you're attractive which is not the case.

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  • graphic_nature

    If you talk too much, have a generally negative attitude, think you're "better" than someone, difficult to socialize with, unapproachable, demanding, have low self esteem, or care way too much about your looks that would put many people off.

    If you are attending school in a small town where you know everyone then you just need a new environment where you can meet others. Also if you're timid that will get you no where, try joining a club or sport where you can get some new friends.

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  • Shackleford96

    You know you are better than that. Never give up!

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    • flutterhigh

      I don't understand how you can like my jokes and be a nice person at the same time.

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      • Shackleford96

        I'm not always nice. I'm just a sucker sometimes... Does it bother you?

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        • flutterhigh

          Nope.

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          • Shackleford96

            Alright. Is it still ok if I secretly stalk you while your not looking?

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  • wigsplitz

    If you're at model school, then all those guys there are probably gay, dummy.

    Model? lol. I bet.

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  • TyLee

    No offense but you sound like a bitch who thinks that they are hot but isn't. No one would want to date someone like that. Don't assume you are hot because you have blonde hair and blue eyes because that means nothing. I personally prefer girls with long dark hair (like some shade of brown) and on the shorter side. Eye color doesnt matter to me because ive been attracted to girls with practically every single eye color. So maybe you are attractive and maybe not but saying that tall blonde and blue eyes is what every guy wants is bitchy and ridiculous. That makes you sound like your personality is shit. Maybe thats why no one likes you. I dont know you so you could be really nice so i mean absolutley offense to what im saying so just try to see where im coming from.

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  • FrancoisDillinger

    Doesn't sound like there is anything wrong with you. Some guys are insecure, and the ones with "confidence" are usually assholes anyway.

    Send clear signals, or ask them out. Waiting on a man to ask you is archaic.

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  • JuliusE

    They might just be intimidated by your looks and by what they perceive as your attitude. That, or there might be something about you that you haven't mentioned that really throws guys off.

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  • joybird

    I see gorgeous girls every week when I am out and 99% of the time they go home on their own. Men seem to smell desperation! I'd say wear less make up, don't be too up-tight and laugh a lot!

    Confidence and laughter is the main attraction for any man.

    It doesn't matter what you look like -when the lights are out ;o)

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  • Maybe you are a bit shy? Try talking to guys first and flirt first. Also guys are very shy when it comes to beautiful girls like you. Go after them and see how happy you'll make them! Don't listen to the hatefull comments on here because they're probably jealous or confused. You sound beautiful, smart, sexy, and a pretty cool chick.

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  • No offense but I have seen a lot of models with the same descriptions you mentioned that are ughh... errr.. fugly. Just because you have those qualities on the outside doesn't mean you're going to attract men. You need to show them what you have on the inside. Show them how awesomely cool you are. Start conversations with guys if you have to!!! Go find yourself a man! LOL.

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  • That's unusual. If you really are all those things guys should be all over you like a fat man on a twinkie.

    Try being aggressive. Ask THEM on dates.

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  • BurnaBaby27

    Everyone needs something to look at..
    Maybe you're ugly.

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    • woah. that's a hateful comment!

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