Is it normal that no one likes me?

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I don't get it... Whatever I do I'm not liked. I barely have any friends and when I do I can't stick with them. Sure I'm quiet and shy but so are others and they have friends?!
I had never been out drinking properly til recently. I let my anxiety stop me. My cousin would invite me out but I always made an excuse, I'm trying to combat it so a few weeks ago I went with her and enjoyed it, I went with her 3 more times... And she was going out again... I was going with her until that night I didn't feel like it... So I text her and explained I was shattered from doing overtime at work and I felt like death and I had work the next morning. She said it was fine. I said let me know when you're next out.

Anyway the power of Facebook says they've been out again ;( she didn't invite me... So again I'm deflated. When I was jut starting to feel normal.

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Based on 26 votes (18 yes)
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  • Shackleford96
    8 years ago

    Well, first off, stop Facebook. Just stop.

    Secondly, stop trying so hard. Stop caring about what other people think as much and just be yourself. You've got to learn to like yourself before you can expect other people to like you.

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  • Unimportant
    8 years ago

    I'd just change the perspective.

    I mean, the default position in life is that one is not liked by anybody.

    If somebody likes another person, really, truly likes them, it is an exception.

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  • Short4Words
    8 years ago

    Maybe you need to find people that do activities that are more your thing. Maybe going out to see movies, or visiting food markets. You tell me.

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  • Steve2.0
    8 years ago

    You're the reverse of me. Everyone hates you, and I hate everyone.

    Seeking validation from people less than you is a waste of time, try to spend less time with your drinking cousin and more time with intelligent people who aren't biological relatives.

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