Is it normal that nice guys seem to always get over looked?

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I've always been considered a nice guy, I always like to make people happy and put a smile on their faces. I'm reliable, honest and have always been there when people needed me. But I feel like when it comes time that I want a relationship, I always get the "you're too good of a friend". I don't want to have that "asshole" reputation, because it's not my style, but it always seems to draw every girl.

Is it normal to believe that girls just don't want a nice guy?

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Based on 46 votes (39 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I believe nice guys get overlooked because of evolution. Think about it. Ever heard the saying "if you want to get a girl then treat her like crap?" Well there's actually logic behind that. Throughout history women have been pushed around and guys still "got some." They're use to being treated like crap, it wasn't until recent (1920s) that women started to actually advocate for their rights. I think overlooking nice guys is somewhat hereditary since nice guys haven't really existed in history. At least that's what I believe. You'll have your time. Nice guys lose in high school but win in life.

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    I'm cautious when I meet a "nice guy." Obviously the rebels are ones to avoid immediately and then the "nice guys" could just be putting on show until you start dating. The bad boys just ruin it for everyone I guess. I finally found a genuine nice guy but then his penis was small with a curve. That just put a whole other caution on nice guys to me. Another one came along and was persistent as hell until I couldn't resist...Keep looking, a girl would be lucky to have you.

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    • 343Boy
      12 years ago

      Whats wrong with a curved penis?

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      • InsertBlankHere
        12 years ago

        rofl

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      • lc1988
        12 years ago

        Oh just thought I'd throw that out there! Memories rush back at inconvenient times and I felt the need to express myself. =) Maybe I need to make a new topic about that issue.

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  • buckman
    12 years ago

    Don't be friends with the girls you're trying to date.

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  • dalmationUntoyourSoul
    12 years ago

    good for you. i hope you feel better now. and make some friends.

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  • dalmationUntoyourSoul
    12 years ago

    i know right? people insist i'm gay. the last girl i liked was convinced that i was a gay satanist, and i constantly told her i wasn't. when she finally believed me she didn't like me anymore.

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  • dalmationUntoyourSoul
    12 years ago

    chances are that you're more of a man than those bad boys that all the immature ladies are after. you're probably self-sacrificing and let people walk on you a bit, and should learn to take care of yourself. i'd rather be born a doormat and learn to take up for myself when it really matters, than to just be a dick all the time and have to learn to be humble. just wait, you'll find a girl that's grown up enough to appreciate you and is tired of being abused. chances are the girls that choose bad boys aren't worth your trouble, and probably have a lot of psychological issues that aren't going to work themselves out without plenty of hard lessons...

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    • stonecutters93
      12 years ago

      You basically just described the girl I was chasing for almost 10 months. It was only after I walked away from her did I realize she treated me like shit and took advantage of me being the "best friend". Not trying to sound arrogant or egotistical, but definitely her loss. If she wants to get used and abused instead of being treated with respect and kindness that's her problem.

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  • thebuddah
    12 years ago

    I've never seen one!

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  • gogo45
    12 years ago

    There's nothing wrong with being a nice guy, look for girls who want that and most girls that see you that way can't appreciate you in a relationship.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    They do want a nice guy, at 30 when they're ready to settle down after the years of partying. Their loss.

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  • Cobrakitnu
    12 years ago

    A lot of girls prefer the rebel, "bad boy", I-don't-give-a-fuck sort of guy. I believe these girls are immature, or not looking for a serious relationship. Yet. Because I'm sure they'll regret being treated like shit by all of those guys and go running to you. Trust me, your time will come. Just stay patient and keep looking. I'd love to have a guy like you.

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      The funny thing is though that all those "bad boys" and "rebels" only talk like bad boys and rebels and are nothing like real bad people or real rebels. I agree though those types of girls are immature but then again nearly every girl around the age of 16-25 like those types.

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      • TheBigKid
        12 years ago

        i agree. there all talk, but when it comes down to it. they disapear

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