Is it normal that my wife is jealous controlling violent

dude, that's horrible. i know someone who was in a similar situation and it ended in divorce.

if you feel like you're getting walked all over, it's not just gonna change itself. if you want to feel like a man, you have to confront the situation and let her know that you're not there for her disposal, and a relationship is a mutual entity. if she's not playing fair game, you're only hurting yourself.

From my experience, selfish ungrateful bitches just get more selfish and ungrateful as time passes. Kick her ass out on the street.

Please note, I could be embittered by my own experience with a selfish ungrateful bitch who left me as soon as I was unable to work and my "vending machine wallet" dried up.

Fuck that bitch, do your idea. Ungrateful cunt

Damn. Make sure you can communicate with her on this subject properly. Try to save this marriage before giving up. I'm sorry you're hurting. I'm in a marriage with an amazing man and I've had out bursts and stuff but I learned from them and i am trying to change. I don't want you or other people who read this to think marriage is terrible. Its all about who you CHOSE to marry. I don't get enough sleep at night because I cant stop petting and cuddling my husband. Thats the downfall of my marriage. Man, I suggest counseling. If you leave just to teach her a lesson, you are playing games and hurting your marriage even more.

Wow man... that sucks.... :/ I never want to get married now xD

No not all woman go through this phase!! I'm a woman and it's not normal nor is it nice!!! How ridiculous to say give her a break! Give him a break!

Don't let her treat you like that, how about talking to her about it? if that doesn't work, you most definitely need to leave her.

i doubt your plan of leaving her, so that she will change and appreciate you is going to work.

What a bitch

Punch the shizznit outta her

Wow sounds like she has anger issues. If you love her as much as it sounds like you do, you need to stay by her IF she gets help... Go to therapy with her to work on your issues too.. With work and commitment people can change.. I knw this from my parents they were on a similar situation minus the violence and now they have a fantastic relationship. She needs to realize she needs help and destroying the relationship, you, and herself. I wish you the best of luck and I empahize with how you feel

Don't let her treat you like that! You deserve better man. Make sure she knows that you won't allow it any longer.

Why did you marry her in the first place? Out of pity?

You teach people how to treat you. Maybe it's time to show her that you're not willing to let her bully you anymore. Leaving would be a good way to do that, but I don't think it will be as smooth as what you described. If you want to save your marriage, you should get some counseling.

Give her a break. It's not her fault, all women go through this phase.