Is it normal that my wife has male friends that i'm not allowd to meet

Huge red flag....

Sorry pal to say that but she probably cheating you

I'm surprised the normal rating is so low. Its fairly normal for wives to cheat. People aren't really designed for monogamy.

If everything you told us is the reality, the you got a problem. But maybe you're making up a big story in your mind with few facts. Try talking straight pipe to her.

So not even close to "okay"...I'm engaged and I know I would never tell my future husband hr couldn't meet the males in my life. Major RED FLAG...

That sounds awfully fishy to me...

I wouldn't be surprised if she has something going on that you're not aware of.

You need to tell her that you think it's pretty damn strange that she won't "allow" you to go out with some of her friends, cough, cough... "guy friends" or even introduce you to them. Something is definitely going on.

"When the cat's away, the mice will play."

You better set her straight. Get her in line.

Trust is one of the main things in a relationship, and with that trust, there should be honesty. You need to tell her that if she can't be more clear on whats going on with these "guy friends" of hers, and why you aren't allowed to meet them, then you have every right to think that she's up to something, and you demand to know what it is.

Of caurse not and u are acting like an idiot if u let her do da

not normal at all.
totally unfair, and you should not have to put up with that. There is definitely something weird going on there.
She should be proud to show you off if she really loves you, she should be wanting to take you out with them and for you to meet them. Sounds like she is taking advantage of you time for a divorce I would say.

I think she keeping big sercrets sneak up on her

It's completly normal for a cheating wife.

Wonder of her guy friends know about you ?

Keep on you toes! I think she's cheating on you.

I'd be suspicious- if she doesn't want you to meet them, she's probably cheating on you...

ok look, shes fucking them, follow her if need be . serious

What a bitch, tell her to come clean before you start dating her mom.

WTF he'll no not normalyour the man dude you tell her like it is tell her u have the right to know who she seeing

Uh oh! Not good.

No it's definitely not normal and this is coming from a female. The same if a man didn't want his wife to meet his female friends. I would be inclined to follow her and see what she is up to or get someone she doesn't know to follow her. That way you will know what's what. That would do my head in and eat away at me. She has to be hiding something but what. ......????

Biiiiig no.

It's entirely normal to have friends of the opposite sex...BUT... why the secrecy? That's totally not normal.
Don't want to shit on your chips, but it does sound suspicious. Sorry.

She's seeing someone else. Sorry.

I think you know the answer to this one on your own.

someone voted yes, can they leave a comment on their thoughts?

No, not normal. Please don't let her fool you. Maybe you should do the same, go hangout with "female friends" she is not allowed to meet. To see how she feels about it.

Nah, sounds a bit dodgy, but then it might just be how you're spinning it.

Maybe she considers them work friends more than guy friends. I think it's fine to keep work separate from personal life. It depends if her work friends are taking their partners to social events.
But if you've asked to meet them and been refused, then you've got a problem. Have a party, and tell her to invite these people and their partners, rather than confronting directly

Woww. You should tap into her cellphone calls and record them. Or find some internet spy software that allows you to keep tabs on your wife. If she is cheating, you won't have to pay her alimony and divorce will be a piece of cake. I'm so sorry but she IS cheating on you. If not, then depending on her age, she may be going through a midlife crisis.

It is normal.I voted yes. Well I don't know what type of female is ur wife. I think she needs some intimacy. Try to make her fell loved every night and don't be that suspicious.

He'll not u acting like an idiot