Is it normal that my wife doesn't like getting oral sex?
For whatever reason, my wife doesn't like me giving her oral sex. It used to be because she didn't like kissing me after I'd been down on her, but we barely kiss during sex anymore (we still kiss before). She only seems to let me do it if we 69 and she'll only do that if we're going to finish that way. When I do actually go down on her, it takes a while for her to even get off (usually 10+ minutes), even though I can get her off by hand often in less than a minute.