Is it normal that my wife did a striptease for her brothers friends?

This is an odd situation. On the one hand, your wife probably saw it as harmless fun, but on the other hand, her guests probably wanted more from her (wink wink). My advice would be to lock away the alcohol next time you're away.

Infront of 5 people, one of whom was her brother?! After a bottle of wine? Whatever she told you, it sounds like she is placating you, scared youll find out the whole truth so she told you something nearly as bad to make you feel she was honest. I dont know what sort of relationship you have, or if your wife is the sort of person i think would do that, but i think her story stinks, and that you would be extremely justified in being suspicious and asking some hard questions about what happened. Furthermore, who the fuck is her brother to bring 4 freinds to YOUR house to then be entertained by your naked wife whilst youre out? Thats not fucking on, that shitbag needs to xplain himself. Keep at this freind, you are NOT in the wrong. Regards

So, getting naked in front of other people is a bit of harmless fun? Everyone called it indecent exposure when I did it ):

Wow! Her brother and his friends? You must be wondering what the hell kind of family you've married into. I'd really be thinking of getting out because who would want a lifetime of that weirdness?!

I've never met any married woman who strips off in a sexual manner in front of her own brother. Therefore I'm going to say it is not normal. Not normal at all.

kinky.

maybe you should invite them all over for booze again

There is definitely more to this story. She's holding back.

I think it's weird she'd do that in front of her brother in the room...wtf

Well I'm all for openmindedness, on the one hand. I myself am in an open relationship and would never tell my significant other they couldn't do something like that..

But in front of her BROTHER? That's just kinda creepy.

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Good that you love her. She must cut all ties with her brother if she is serious about getting past this kind of behaviour - and she better be. His disrespect of his sister and of you proves he is trash, and of no value in your or her life. If she does not respect you enough to do this, or is hiding facts about the strip thing you must cut your losses and find somebody who will respect you.

People are right, there is more to this story. A lot more than my wife had told me.

I talked to one of her brother's friends. Apparently, before I had met my wife, my wife had done "favours" for some of her brothers friends. She had even done this with her brother watching sometimes.

I confronted my wife on this last night. She says she was very lonely and depressed at the time it had happened and she had always regretted it. She says she also regrets the other night now.

I am now staying at friends house while I work out what the hell to do. Problem is I love her and don't want to be without out her.

I would be shocked and angry if I were you... Your reaction was normal, her behaviour would be extremely annoying to me. I voted "no" because as I understand it, you were asking us to vote about her behaviour, not your reaction.
I do not go to strip clubs to look at naked women, so I would appreciate if my partner didn´t do strip shows for other guys.
Your response to the situation was natural.

Personally, I would never strip down to nothing in front of my brother. Ever. Doesn't matter how much I've had to drink.
While doing a little strip tease in front of some guys may seem innocent, if not leading to anything else afterwards, I still wouldn't if I was faithful in a relationship.
Being single, I do get a little crazy when I drink. But whenever I am in a relationship, or even just talking to someone, I bring it down a little. I'm not the type to give the whole world my body when I want to be with one person.

Not normal, not only because she's married but because her own brother shouldn't see her naked...

she likes to show off and was probably sort of horny since you where away. and wanted some help getting her worked up some that nite thinking of you not being there and it might help her out some. so no harm done . normal for all to do this no but surely a nice treat for those special lads.

My wife has been and is always naked in front of my brothers and uncles well as all her relatives as she was brought in a nude type of life. To her being nude is no big thing. She is naked 24/7 at home no matter who is over. She knows she has a great body and doesn't mind sharing it with others. Many of my friends, our neighbors have naked pics of her posing for/with them...........I love her and proud she is mine and don't sharing her beauty..

Ok, how can a brother see his sister naked in front of his 4 friends. I bet his friends talked about his sisters assets after. Thats nasty. Not classy at all. This woman has no respect for herself obviously. If she can do this so easily and call it "harmless FUN" then she can do more. There is def more to this. And if she's that bored with your relationship to find "harmless fun" with her brothers friends than thats f'd up!!....I'd divorce her if I were you! thats messed up. Anyone would find this ugly. I dont even know why you'd type this question on here lol, you should just put the facts together.

I for some reason think you knew before and paid her brother's freinds to take a picture of your wife naked with your camera so you could see her naked whenever you want.

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I would divorce her

Dump the bitch now. Buy her a bottle of wine and drop her off at your brother's house... after you kick his ass.

This is the woman who is going to look after your children?

Do you have kids now?

JUST DUMP HER HARD. She should tell you BEFORE she does things. Not after. She should want you there, if she likes to be naked in front of others.

They're all the same with the 'DRUNK' excuse.

Seriously, is she gonna drive your kids around after a bottle of wine?

Alcohol brings out a person's true personality. How many times does a woman say, "I was drunk. I didn't know what I was doing." If she can remember one fact, she knew what she was doing and she couldn't wait to do it.

Would she do it if was home? NOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

I can't believe he's still married to this whore.

If his so-called 'wife' found out he was drunk and a drunk girl came by to say hello while 'Mrs. Easywife' was away, there would be lawyers flying lazy circles around the house by morning.

Give it up already with the bull-shit alcohol excuses.

I accidentally clicked normal. I would be furious too, except I'm not a boy. :p remember the song "girl's just wanna have fun" that is the wrong kind of fun. Again, she was drunk and so were they, so you should have some remorse, but remember people who are drunk do things that they secretly want to do, except when they are drunk, they can't control themselves. If you could talk to her, then you might find out more details and it would also be helpful to talk stop the brother and his friends. If you find out the details and Don't like them, or still can't handle what happened, maybe you could go stay at a friend's house for a while, or just get a complete divorce. Your wife is in the wrong not you. Good luck.

you are upset because you missed it

I know you're thinking "these people don't know what they're talking about" because it's something difficult to think about like this leading to divorce but trust me it's definitely the best option..not to be disrespectful but your wife isn't only unloyal& a cheater but she's pretty disgusting for doing this infront of her brother, I can't even think about EVER getting naked infront of my brother EW! (just shivered) &&i mean if she went as far as getting naked infront of her brother I'm pretty sure this went way further maybe not with him but I'm positive there's more to the story. My advise is divorce (excuse my language) that sick hoe you deserve better! You were away on a work trip earning what supports both of you and she disrespects not only you but your home? FUCK THAT.!

Wtf... This is so weird.... O_0

Dump that filthy skank.

When the cats away the rats/mice will play. Your wife has some serious self image issues and her willingness to be true to you is zero. Guarantee she'll f--k up one of these days.
You have a shittie marriage and you will eventually divorce her. No big deal prepare for it and just don't have any kids or any more with her.
Good luck no changing a person she is who she is and counseling is a joke. Those idiots have their own set of promblems they hide in the closet. Don't piss the years away my with this person you'll only regret it!!

It has nothing to do with the alcohol, she's just a party girl slut.. She probably didn't do anything else with the guys, but I PROMISE you she was very flirtatious and probably did a bit of rubbing and sitting on laps and all that.. If you want a serious relationship, she's not the one. But if you just want good sex, she sounds like a keeper lol.