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Me and my fiancé had sex for the first time, he said that he heard from friends that my vagina was supposed to be tight since I've never had sex before, but it wasn't..? Is there something wrong with it..? Is that really true that its supposed to be..?
Well he sounds like he has literally no idea what he is doing with his dick, 'he heard from friends' LOL! I would bet he has a tiny dick so don't in anyway feel bad about yourself ma dear.
Sometimes when the girl is so wet that the boy feels next to nothing. Maybe that's what has happened. Anyway that guy shouldn't have been so crude. You should not date somebody like that.
1st time for you both probably isn't to be expected as the best time. Maybe you were well lubricated and too relaxed. Next time try using your vaginal muscles more, you could even practice with a toy. I tend to think though, if there's a fraction too much friction a guy can't control himself as well. It's nice to be able to slow down and enjoy the session!
Your vagina was very ready for him and his dick is less than average. It's small.
But your vagina is normal.
It just means you were ready. Most girls only feel pain or discomfort if they were nervous. The vagina is meant to stretch and open. Being aroused, prepared, and trusting your partner makes penetration much easier.