Is it normal that my straight friend sexually teases me?

I've known my "straight" friend since we were little kids. We really like to hang out in my house every now and then (he always comes to my house). He recently got really hot and he completely knows this. When he has a chance, he doesn't doubt to say "hell boy! That's a really hot chick" and stuff like that. However, I have never seen him with a girlfriend. I am a not openly gay, but it is very evident because of my behavior (at times effeminate and without a girlfriend even though I'm in my mid 20s). He is also around his mid 20s.
He started to sexually tease me around two years ago: when we are together, which is usually every day, he frequently touches my legs and hands, and kisses my arms, legs and hands, but never in the face. He does this regardless of whether we are with his younger brother (who sometimes accompany us) or not. One time, we three were sitting on our living room and, as usual, he was touching me and kissing me. I asked him why was he doing this thing and he replied "I want just want to fuck you!". His brother shocked for a moment but then started to laugh and he followed. He also likes to smell my neck and tells me "you smell really good". One time, he even said that my sent turned him on. Two years later, he continues to hang by my house with his brother. He still does this stuff, so, up to this point, his brother doesn't mind it. These are other examples: 1) when I'm about to sit down, he puts his hand in between so he can touch my butt, 2) where we live, young boys rub the center of a girl's hand with their middle finger to imply that they want to have sex with her; when he cans, my friend always rubs me like that, 3) he keeps telling me "you have a really nice butt there". 4) Recently, he started to ask me if I was virgin; I always tell him that I do, but when I ask back, he says his also virgin and then laughs.
Finally, I wanted to confirm that I am 100% certain he is into girls the way he looks at them when we go out and by his posts on Facebook.
I really like when he teases me, it really turns me on. By now, I am positive he know this.
Please help understand this complex situation. Is this normal on straight guys?

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Based on 61 votes (23 yes)
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  • jackymew

    Did you leave without telling how you feel ? lol ? Curious AF !!

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  • jackymew

    i wonder how it went ?!!!

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  • CorynFlorida

    He's probably str8 outwardly, but would act on gay impulses given the opportunity that he's been trying to open with you. You may be looking for another gay guy who may eventually share the world with you, but for now, the decision you're faced with is that of a pure physical experience with someone who likes you as a friend and would like to extend it to another level.

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  • drego551

    sounds like your friend is a total dick...he's obviously NOT serious and enjoys playing w/your feelings since you are gay and he is not....next time he does this get mad, tell him off using cuss words and leave....if he truly is your friend he'll apologize and stop.

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  • Steve2.0

    Tell him to stop or you'll tie him up and put him outside the Westboro Baptist Church.

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  • Bambi2015

    Ur friend is totally bi sexual

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    • Michael05050505

      I have always wondered if that's the case. As I said, he's really into girls and sometimes he does this sexual teasing in a joking way or he ends up just laughing. Anyway, thank you for your reply!

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  • nicksimmons

    why don't you guys just have a good talk.. u know eachother for so long already. let it happend ! but the way he's moving around with you, im sure he's not a virgin

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    • I wouldn't know how to address it. What if I'm wrong and we just stay awkward for the rest of our lives?

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  • derek123000

    It's kinda normal I've had a few friends that are extremely flirtatious I've done it on more then one occasion it can be a fun time or lead to a nice experience. I did it for about a week straight to all of my friends just so that when I was flirting with the one I had a crush on he wouldn’t take offense. If anything try flirting back, it's harmless fun and if it leads anywhere kudos to you just keep it safe and have fun

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    • Michael05050505

      Yeah I've seen other cases. However, I'm almost sure he does this teasing only with me. I have never teased him back, so I don't know how he will take it. But I guess this is a safe way to really start understanding what's going on! I'm leaving my hometown for two years and I really need to make a decision!

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  • Short4Words

    No. Your friend is an egomaniac and gets off of the fact that he can wrap you around his little finger. I wouldn't want him as a friend or a lover unless he was serious. But he's just fucking with you.

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    • Michael05050505

      Thank you so much for your answer. It's not that easy to just throw away the long friendship I have with him, but I will try to him to see how this will unfold.

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