Is it normal that my straight friend and i made out while drunk?

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Ok, here's what happened: It was his birthday (he just turned 22 & I'll be 24 soon) & we all got trashed (we partied with mutuals). At one point, it was just us outside for a cig & I confessed that I wanted to kiss. He was perfectly fine with it & we made out twice. Neither of us have "feelings" for each other but I've thought about it a lot since (the party was Saturday; today's Tuesday). He doesn't seem uncomfortable about it but I'm nervous that he thinks I've got feelings for him. We talked beforehand & he said that since we're good friends, it's ok to kiss. Have you (gay or straight) had this happen? Who wanted to kiss first? We hugged goodbye so he seems fine but I don't know cuz we were sober (well, I was hungover/still drunk but he was A Ok). Am I over thinking things? Our friendship has always been strong and I don't want to ruin that. But he seems perfectly fine. What should I do? I'm a gay male, in case no one read my description on my profile beforehand.

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  • kyanviado
    12 years ago

    When drunk anything possible

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  • Ono
    12 years ago

    You lose your inhibitions when you're drunk and some people are a lot more comfortable with close contact than others. I wouldn't necessarily read too much into it. You know him better than any of us though. If it happens again...well...

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    • mignonmec
      11 years ago

      Yea, I highly doubt it'll happen again. Nice little experience though :-)

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  • myownopinions
    12 years ago

    They say that when you're drunk, you let lose your inhibition, so you never know. Both of you could secretly be part bi or it could have been harmless curiosity. Strange things happen when drunk.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I've made out with tons of my girlfriends while drunk, and had no feelings for them (romantic or sexual). When you're drunk, sometimes it's just fun to make out.

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  • Flaze
    12 years ago

    He's obviously gay then, or bi-sexual.

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  • squirtle
    12 years ago

    umm it doesn't sound like he's straight.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I've kissed tons of chicks drunk, but only date dicks. Don't worry bro

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