Is it normal that my son still sleeps with me when he is 18 in age now

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I m a housewife. My son who is 18 in age now still sleeps with me. He sleeps with me from his childhood when he was born. From his age of 2, he started grabbing my body with his both legs and hands and he still sleeps like this when he is 18 now. I many times asked him to sleep properly because he is grown now, but he never understand and refused to do this. I can’t do anything now because it’s a mother’s heart and I can’t hurt him. But from last 1 yr, i m feeling different while sleeping wid him. I don’t know why. He grabs me more tightly now. Very tightly. Sometimes kiss on my neck and sometimes on my back and sometimes his hand goes on my breast, but m ignoring all these as his innocence daily. Can u tell me that what’s there in his mind? Is there anything wrong in his mind about me? Is it normal?

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    It is for a troll, don't cha think?

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    • manbearpigfcukedyourmom
      9 years ago

      Don't know about this one, it could be genuine.

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        I don't know. Spelling is perfect except for 'wid', but the English is 4th grade. It all seems a bit contrived and too titillating for a real situation.
        Either way, the OP and her son belong in a rubber room in a sanitarium, before we have another mass murder in a town near you.

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        • strangethingshappen
          9 years ago

          Or considering the fact that OP uses some fob terms and wording, could be a sign that she is from dee asian persuasion!

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      • st395
        9 years ago

        It sure appears Mom is wanting Sons attention! I don't believe she is ignoring his touching and kissing either? Mom! what is it you are not saying here...?

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        • Ace09
          9 years ago

          Does he do it when he's awake or when sleep?

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          • Arm0se
            9 years ago

            ^this^

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            • Ace09
              9 years ago

              What?

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    • eastbeast
      9 years ago

      Fol - de - roll, I smell Troll.

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  • Mytwin295
    9 years ago

    I wonder what Dad has to say about this.

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    • ammytin
      9 years ago

      His dad don't know about this.

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      • Mytwin295
        9 years ago

        I meant the IIN user dad but your answer will have to do

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  • laxman209
    9 years ago

    Mommy's boy turned terribly wrong.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    This is one of the more amusing insist stories.

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  • JD777
    9 years ago

    I had a first date once and picked her up at her house. She took me on a little tour of the house and explained that her son's room was so tidy because he always slept with her! He was 9 y/o! We went out for a nice dinner and I never called again. Creepy!

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    • Avant-Garde
      9 years ago

      You dodged a bullet.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    That is not normal at all!

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  • KacyWatson
    3 years ago

    It's kind of weird to think about it but it is perfectly normal at age 18 because your son could be having wet dream. Give him another two or three years and it will calm down and stop. What you could do is may be cuddle him in a way that he can't move. A cuddle, not a vice grip.

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  • shuttle85
    9 years ago

    Your post seems trolly, but if not... I'm just gonna say it flat out, Like Avant garde said you waited way waaaaaaaaaayyyyy to fucking long, not only the length of time but through his most important developmental years. Professional help NAO!

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  • regisphilbin
    9 years ago

    this post literally made me rotfl

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    You waited way too long. He's formed a dependency. Since he's been doing it for so long, it will be harder to get him to stop. The mother's who breast feed their children past the recommended age, go through this as well. The kissing and touching is troubling. It will be hard but you must grow a backbone and set up boundaries. Tell him that he must sleep in his own bed from now on. Put a lock on your door so, he can't get in and crawl in bed with you. Let him know that there will be repercussions if he breaks the boundaries. - kick him out. Good luck.

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    • ammytin
      9 years ago

      He is refusing. I can't force him. It's a mother's heart. Please try to understand my situation. I don't like to fight with him.

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      • Avant-Garde
        9 years ago

        I'm trying to be as sympathetic as I possibly can. Perhaps, family therapy would work? Something needs to be done or it will further escalate. What will happen when he begins dating? etc.

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  • Pattyloup
    9 years ago

    You are really in a incest relationship. I think you need counseling.

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    • ammytin
      9 years ago

      You are wrong. Nothing is like that.

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      • Avant-Garde
        9 years ago

        His actions are incestuous if he is kissing and touching on you.

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  • Dot123
    9 years ago

    Incest is the best. So put your mother to the test.

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    • thr
      9 years ago

      All that rhyming in a jest, please give it a rest.

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  • noid
    9 years ago

    No.

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  • Ebola69
    9 years ago

    It's only normal if you have sex with him.

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    • ammytin
      9 years ago

      I never had sex with him and I can't even think about this. Think once before you comment.

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  • thr
    9 years ago

    I've read about how sleeping together is common in non-agricultural/non-industrial societies, but this still sounds odd.

    How is he doing socially?

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