Is it normal that my sister treats me like shit, and then appologises?

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Okay, well my sister seems so sweet to everyone, but when we're at home she snaps at the smallest things. Example, over food we just bought. She'll bring it up over and over, and she'll just keep yelling and swearing at me about it. If I'm part of the problem she'll start getting physical. Example, punching, kicking, dragging me by the hair. I usually never fight back, because I hate fighting, but she still keeps hurting me. Then, after she's finished hurting me she leaves the room (sometimes she doesn't) and continues to insult me, by talking in a loud voice even if no one is there, just so I can here how stupid, fat, and ugly I am. Then half an hour later she appologises, but she tells me she only did it because I was_____(example, being stupid). Then in a few days she starts all over again. I'm not sure if it's normal for siblings to fight like this, or if she has some disorder or something. None of my friends fight like this with their siblings, but maybe others do? It's strange because It's almost a one sided fight.

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    no this is not normal, your sister needs help. tell your parents to take her to the doctor.

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  • lol_bamf
    13 years ago

    Not normal. Leave if you can. If you can't, bring her to a doctor.

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  • Ithinkimwierd(:
    13 years ago

    I GO THROUGH THE EXACT SAME THING :/ Except ive got a brother who's 6 years older than me. Whoever said being the youngest is lucky was wrong, especially in my family. Im black and in my culture i gotta respect my elders no matter wat their always right. He can beat the shit out of me if he wants and thats normal... Worst thing is my bro will apologize and it wont even take a day or another fight to kick off and when i say fight, i mean fight not arguement. Im sickk of it! Watever it is- my culture, my family, my brother.. watever the source of this evil is... And my parents jsut standby and watch, its soo frustrating because in the end its "get rid of that attitude" and i wont even have done anything wrong. When im in my own house im unconfortable i have to think about wat i say, analyse every word and make sure its not giving "attitude" i hate having to fight with someone you see every single day! Ive promised myself when im older this wont ever happen in my family!

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    • Crudhouse
      12 years ago

      I'm brown and it's the same in my culture...can't hurt people older than you. Do what I did. Gain some weight, wrap your arms around your brother and hold him a couple of inches off the ground for five minutes. He was so embarassed and all the friction stopped pronto

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  • Shrunk
    13 years ago

    my sister is like that.. but without the appology

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  • mike989
    9 years ago

    I hav the same problam my sister is older than me im in mid 20s shes nearly 40 or sommat. i have a depresion problam and anxety am disclectic and have a bad phoba of insects our mum passed away not long ago and i am now by my self my sister is kind harted to peeple and me but sometime she gets angry with me lik my phoba but she call me fat says stuff about my hijean i cant go in the bath room coz of my phoba and that lot my mum halped me with my disabilty and my sister gets nasty becoz i am this way is it normal for my sister to be horribel becoz i have lernig ishues or not??

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  • Crudhouse
    12 years ago

    The next time she touches you, slap the shit out of her.

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  • proniss
    13 years ago

    Bi polar?

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  • The.Truth.Answers
    13 years ago

    I think that she was having what girls have that is called Premenstrual syndrome P.M.S. PMS is a collection of physical, psychological, and emotional symptoms related to a woman's menstrual cycle. While most women of child-bearing age (up to 85%) report having experienced physical symptoms related to normal ovulatory function, such as bloating or breast tenderness PMS are limited to a consistent pattern of emotional and physical symptoms occurring only during the luteal phase of the menstrual cycle

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  • BlueAlice
    13 years ago

    Not normal - she's very obviously got sometihng wrong with her.

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  • Talitha
    13 years ago

    Wow. I nearly thought I had written this. I'm in the exact situation. My sister was diagnosed with depression, and she had menigitis when she 1 w/ a fever of 100+ deg. F. Maybe your sister has some chemical imbalances too?

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  • combatgal856
    13 years ago

    This is almost beyond sibling rivalry. I asume she s older because I wuld me mean to my sister when we we're young, butnot physical or as verbaly abusive, I wouldn't ruin her self esteem. We are close now (5 year age gap). Try and get help, stand up to her, I think she is inflicting her issues on you.

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  • A-perfect-circle
    13 years ago

    If I were you I'd kick her ass but don't listen to me because I always fight with my 2 brothers and were never too serious anyway.

    GOOD ADVICE PART:

    Btw I think her apologies are heR way of justifying being so cruel to you. Truly I believe when she apologises you should tell her that you don't except it and make it clear to her that what she did was wrong. ( if she lashed out when you do that fight back because then your totally justified)

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    • A-perfect-circle
      13 years ago

      Apologises to you*

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  • jessiii
    13 years ago

    i heard everyone has metal problems in a certain way. i shouldn't judge that your sister has that serious problems. BUT she seems to take it for granted that you never fight back. i don't suggest you to take a physical counter attack. i suggest you to talk to her without emotional expressions when she is not mad.

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx
    13 years ago

    How old r u and how old is your sister? I'm wondering cause I have a sister and we have never even yelled or said mean things to one another and never had a physical fight

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx
    13 years ago

    No no no that is so ridiculous! U need to tell someone! That is serious!!!

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  • zion4887
    13 years ago

    She's jealous

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