Is it normal that my sister to have no respect for me?

If I were you I'd bite back. What makes her think she's so perfect? Don't give kindness to someone who won't appreciate it.

ahh family

I have this problem with my older brother. At 30 years old, he's still a vile arsehole and not worth giving the time of day. Unfortunately you can't choose your family, but you can choose your friends. Concerning your sister, I wouldn't bother being nice to her except the barest minimum to get along in the house. If she's anything like my brother, your good will is just being wasted. Be nice to those who deserve it, because really, if she wasn't your sister, would you tolerate being nice to somebody who hates your guts?

have you tried having a one on one talk with your mom about how it makes you feel? or perhaps your dad (only u know who would be more receptive). your mom [or dad] will see your maturity level above hers despite being younger. or if your parents arent really around for you, then all u can do, is just realize that you shouldnt have to suffer bcuz of her crappy attitude. dont let the fact she is that way make u feel bad about yourself. although, something tells me that there will be some point in the future that she will in the right mind set for u to tell her that the way she treats you really hurts. dont come off hateful or vengeful. it will make her feel so much worse that way (assuming she not a true sociopath..) although if and when she has a receptive moment, getting it off your chest will be therapeutic for u if nothing else, and at that point u should tell your parents about it and tell them that you are disgusted by her presence but ur tired of giving peace offerings time after time just to be hurt again and again.

She's a bitch. There.

I grew up with exactly the same problem but I was lucky coz I was 4 years older than her, and physically stronger. I hate to tell you but my sister was a rotten bitch from the day she was born right up to now, and she's in her forties. She could start a fight in an empty house and I have nothing to do with her. If she's anything like her, don't waste your time trying to win her round. Let her wallow in her resentment and hopefully she'll move out before you. This is likely as she probably thinks she knows it all.

yeah why do yup put up with that? sticking up for yourself isn't being "mean"

I have the same exact problem with my twin sister, and I have no clue what I did to her!

Neither does my sister, she's 2 years younger. Shes stolen money off me (lots) broken my things ruined my things snook drugs into our house and my mum and dad turn a blind eye so your not on your own!

I dunno what else to say other than what you said not to say. But, she sounds like she has some growing up to do. It sounds like she doesn't deserve the respect and kindness you give her.

Oh trust me I have the same problem, you know sometimes I actually think that I should just kill myself but I know that it’s just a little brat that once I leave my parents house I will NEVER contact her again btw im 14 she is 10 hate her more than ever. Like I just had a fight with her for something stupid and she’s such a drama queen that she cried so loud and when my mum screamed at me she shut up. Hope she dies in a ditch.

I don't know what to say, I am truly hurt right now, I am crying and sticking things up my anus at the same time. Try fucking her, it worked with my friend. Goodbye pet.

Just ignore her and leave her alone.

your sister may just not want someone to tell her to clean her room unless it is a parent. she also may be jealous of you and want to get you into trouble because of that.

She's probably jealous of something...

she will live her life and make her mistakes. dont ask why and you save yr self a lot of grief. but if you care so much and get hurt its hard . maybe say to her " remember me i will be yr friend when you come out the other side. i offer my hand which you will bite, i know. i am sister and you are sister i will wait for you. goodbye for now

if your sister is a teenager then that is your answer. My sister is also in the "bratty" stage. I think it's cute.